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Now my girlfriend wants to breakup, all because I looked at a girl's cleavage. Is she being unreasonable?

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Question - (26 January 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2013)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I glanced at a girl's cleavage. There was nothing sexual about it and I wasn't looking for anything. I don't know how to convince her that this isn't a big deal. Advice?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013):

When a guy acts like this GF is acting, people use words like "dangerous controlling behavior."

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (26 January 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell based on your age and her reaction and yours I am thinking you are all too young to be having boyfriend girlfriend serious relationships.

I look at women's butts and boobs all the time my hubby is not leaving me..

IF all you did was glance, she's over reacting.

IF you sought it out and stared you were in the wrong.

perhaps breaking up is for the best... as I doubt it will last much longer if this is an issue.

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A female reader, AProblemShared United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2013):

AProblemShared agony auntSome cleavages are hard not to notice and at your age it's only natural but a proper gent would at least try and avert his glance. Your girlfriend probably feels slightly insecure right now but you should definitely try and talk to her. Maybe you haven't been paying her the same attention you paid to other girls bosom? It's worth a thought.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2013):

If that was the only time you looked at another woman (porn included) I wish I was her!! That is minor compared to what happens to some people..

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