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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and this Guy have become really close and we spend all our time together there. We have been really close for about 3 months.I really like him and from the way he acts I think he likes me to. Constantly flirting, texting 24/7 and around him Im always very natural - the real me.My girl friends and most of the guys say that he really likes me but I just shrug this off smiling.The other day, One of my male friends said "Iz - would you go out with (boy i like)"I really want to but just said "Maybe if the opportunity arrived?"And he replied "Dont hold your breath - he's to lazy"I was a little hurt and confused but let it go. Today one of the guys said jokingly " Oh you and (name of boy) should totally go out" I laughed, smiled but didn't say anything even though I want that. Another guy I was with said this wouldn't happen because he didn't fancy me (napparently he Asks the boy i like every lesson) and he wouldn't ask me out.What?! Why is he sending me mixed messages?!EVERYONE refers to us as BF and GF and now he's saying he doesn't like me?I'm really cross - I feel like he's using me/ playing me. I really like him and want to be his girlfriend... But don't want to make a fool of myself by talking to him.What should I do?Why at lunch is he flirting with me and holding my hand and then next lesson telling everyone he doesnt like me.I can't wait around for him to make his mind up - what can I do to speed the process along?I have no experience with boys - but the little I do have has told me that their very confusing!!Thanks :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
He's not being a player or anything. He's done nothing. That's the point. The one person you should be talking to is him. I think he does like you, but his friends have made a big deal out of it and now he's backed into a corner. To top it off, he's probably confused as to how you feel as well. The only way you can speed this up is to talk to him alone. Stop listening to his friends, and talk to him.
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