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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 2 months. Somce we've been together ive only met his mom once and his best friend once and neither one like me. His best friend and his girlfriend absolutely hate me and ive never met or talked to his best friends girlfriend. They hate me so bad that Im not allowed to go in their house if me and my boyfriend go to their house I have to sit in the car. They wont even give me the time of day to show them im not a bad person. His mom on the other hand hasn't liked any girl he's dated. So my question is should I just end the relationship since no one likes me and I never can go around any of his friends?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 March 2014):
 Of course you should end this "relationship".... since it really doesn't exist, after all.... does it???
You "boyfriend" keeps you around... for the $ex, I'm sure.... but chooses NOT to act like a "boyfriend"....
Do you see the incongruity in all of that???? It "means" that you are - approximately - his "call girl"... who satisfies his $exual cravings.... but he does not seem compelled to acknowledge you as a "girlfriend"....
Good luck, once you've dumped him...
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reader, Sensible Alice  +, writes (9 March 2014):
 How unfair of them to not give you a chance to defend yourself! It must be confusing for you not knowing the source of their hate. If his mom hasn't liked any girl he's dated then all you can do is make yourself not only the first girl she's liked, but the first she loved! Mother in law's can be hard to win over. I don't think you'd be the first be looked at through narrowed eyes there. You have your work cut out for you, but if you love your boyfriend and want to stick it out, then I'd be zeroing in on mom's affections and try to win her over. Once she's on board the rest of the family will follow suit. Spend some time with his mom, invite her out for coffee or a pampering day at the beauty shop, maybe invite the brother's girlfriend too. But be yourself. They'll either love you or hate you but at least you'll have tried.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 March 2014):
 If all of the people closest to him hate you and have never met you, consider the source of their 'hate.'
That would be your boyfriend.
My guess is that he's hiding something from you.
I'd end the relationship.
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