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anonymous
writes:hey. i have a problem. i have been seeing this super nice guy but in all honesty i'm just not that into him. i thought that if i continued seeing him the spark would develop. but obviously it didnt and now im stuck. he is really into me and tries so hard to make me happy. i dont think that staying in this relationship would be fair to him or to me. he deserves someone that will love him. we have been dating for almost a month so what is the best way to break up with him? a guys opinion would be greatly appreciated too. i've never broken up with someone before so i am really anxious about this. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I agree with "kellyO" and "anut honesty". Just be honest with him. If he is as nice as you say he is, he will understand. Good luck with it.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Dear Anom,
Be honest and let him know as you said here that you dont have feeling for him and thought initially it developed.
If he has been super nice let him know it has nothing to do with him. In this way he doesnt feel is something he did wrong or he has to fix things.
All the best
Kelly
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 hi i think it will help if you are just honest with him and tell him how you feel there is no point in lying in this situation just tell him that you really like him as a friend but that you just dont have the feelings that you should have for him and you need to be on your own for the time being, just tell him its not fair on you or him and that you are sorry.
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