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writes:I am 32 and married. In some occasions I watched porn with my wife. Afterwords she said it was not a good idea and rejected it so I stopped. Lately I have seen she is watching porn while I am away. She is now in another country and when I called her she apparently picked the phone without noticing. I heard she was watching porn. Is she not satisfied having sex with me?? Does she compare me to the porn stars in movies?
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reader, melnjy  +, writes (4 April 2009):
First of all,its not that your wife is not satisfied with you.She most probably need some alone time.do not overeact or it could cause potential break up in your marriage.
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Please take a look at this article. It may give you some insight on how porn SHOULD be used in a relationship, and many various reasons why people watch porn.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/perception-of-porn-in-a-relationship.html
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reader, crazykit666 +, writes (4 April 2009):
I think you may be overreacting here... You are away? She got bored? You don't sound like you know for definate that she is watching anything 'suspect'?Don't you watch porn/masturbate without your wife? I think porn can be used successfully in a relationship. Although, I also think that porn is for private individual 'relief'(just my personal preference). If I was watching porn with my boyfriend sat next to me it would be a little strange- why use porn when I have the real thing sat next to me?? If one of you has a higher sex drive- often the case with men- porn can help to 'level' things out?I find it weird that when people hear of a woman using porn an eyebrow is raised; as though something is wrong? Although, you may have a point if she is substituting porn for sex?I personally think that porn is great for women... to discover about themselves- how their bodies work, what they like, new ideas for the bedroom etc? When you come home she may have a few new tricks up her sleeve for you!! :P Let me know what you think? Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): I doubt that she isnt satisfied with you or is comparing you to porn stars. If you are all the way in another country she probably is missing you and needing some satisfaction. So since you arent there to do it for her she is taking care of the matter herself. I wouldnt be concerned about hs if I were you. Next time you call her just bring up what you heard.
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