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My wife watches porn when I am away!

Q.   I am 32 and married. In some occasions I watched porn with my wife. Afterwords she said it was not a good idea and rejected it so I stopped. Lately I have seen she is watching porn while I am away. She is now in another country and when I call...

A.   4 April 2009: First of all,its not that your wife is not satisfied with you.She most probably need some alone time.do not overeact or it could cause potential break up in your marriage. ... (read in full...)

Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

Q.   i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my ...

A.   4 April 2009: I do not think that it is your fault. I think that you are probably bored with your life or just can`t stand being alone. I think that you should tell both guys about each other. That way, it would make it fairer to the both of them.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has become quite abusive and controlling

Q.   My Boyfriend, OB, has been really clingy, and I told him to stop doing things which annoy me. But lately he has become really manipulative and abusive- by trying to stop me having music lessons because I have missed my breaktime, and stop doing ...

A.   2 April 2009: Just leave him. The way he treats you is not how a man should treat a woman. You deserve better. You are rather strong-willed, while alll he wants is a submissive little kitten. Personality-wise, both of you are not compatible. I believe that you ... (read in full...)

I'm sick, single and sick of it!

Q.   Hi. I'm miserable right now. The problem is that nothing seems to satisfy me at the moment. I can watch any amount of comedy, play any number of games, see any number of my friends, and yet nothing is able to make me feel truly happy. I haven't been ...

A.   2 April 2009: I think that you should not depend on a guy to make you happy.It is my believe that you complete yourself-that you make up a whole. You must make yourself happy, not rely on someone else to give you happiness.Beacuse if rely on another for ... (read in full...)

Past girlfriends have cheated on me, so I can't believe this girl won't too!

Q.   Hi everyone,I'm 20 and male. I have been with relationships since 15yrs of age and had not very much, this may sound shocking,but I find it hard to love again, since my first love, I was cheated. I'm not a guy to cheat, at all. But because of all t...

A.   2 April 2009: I believe that you are not really ready for a relationship.This girl says she will never leave you.What if that statement is true? I think you should have a talk with her.Because if all you can do is think of ways she can leave you,then you are ... (read in full...)

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