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writes:Help I feel so lonely. .. my partner has moved away only 2 hours away but I've not seen him for over coming up to 3 weeks and that was only for a day... I've a little girl but shes not his but still feel lonely with out him here. I sometimes speak to him on the phone but only for few mins or even seconds. It was my b'day just gone and really wanted him to come back but he said would on Sat... Sat came and had a quick phone call from him Sat am, that was it.I asked what he was doing but never got a reply, never heard from him yesterday and I kinda refuse to text him as a way of me showing I'm kinda upset he never got me anything or come down not even a card.. From him living with us to nothing is strange.. in fact it always crossing my mind he's with someone else there but when ask him he says no. I also ask if wants to be with me but he always says yes. Ee kinda gets angry me asking :/ The other day when I know he finished early I asked when he did after he replied just stuff makes me think even more then lol. I keep dreaming that he's got someone pregnent and stays in my mind all the time. I just can't understand why he doesn't come down anymore, if so only for a day or even just half a day.Plz can someone give advice, am I going crazy or should I just give in text... should I feel the right to feel lonely? I'm so confused ;( Thanks Sara jane
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 February 2014):
 Very odd behaviour, from the little you have told us it 'sounds' like the relationship is over. If he left your home to go live elsewhere he must have had a good reason (in his mind)
Did he move for work? Do you have his address?
He really owes you an explanation, you need to ask him either on the phone or face to face what's going on. Insist he tells you because he is not being honest just now.
I hope you get answers
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 February 2014):
 Let’s start with the fact that NOT texting him just says you are NOT texting. He does not know WHY you are not texting. IF you are hurt that he ignored your b-day YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM. How else can he know?
Did he move for work or school? If so, it’s new and he may be getting settled. IF your daughter sees her birth father maybe you can go visit your partner when your daughter is with her dad. If not, is it because HE does not want you to come visit HIM? Why not? (that might be a red flag)
When my then boyfriend and I were 2 hours apart by car and getting serious we saw each other every weekend. I usually went to him.
You can’t understand why he doesn’t come visit… HAVE YOU ASKED HIM WHY?
Have you asked him where you two stand? If not, ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2014): Can you give us more facts - or at least what you think are the facts - before we respond?
Why did he move away/or what was the reason he gave to you?
Do you know where he lives and have you got proof that he is actually living where he says he is living?
How long had you been together?
Where does he work?
Was he living with you before and for how long?
Where are his family and friends?
Please let us know.
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