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*akhra
writes:sir,,i got a mistake,my problem is that my husband got on first night that i am not virgin girl.what can i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010): in your part of the world virgininty is cherished and there is an expectation that a woman will be a virgin to her husabnd. why did you lie in the first place. you would not be in this situation if you told your husband that you had sex with another man. i think you thought you could pretend you were a virgin but your husband was one wise enought o know that you had sex before. you cannot lie and expect your husband to believe you were all pure and innocent. why did you lie and did you think you could bluff your husband. you know in your culture that sex and virginity and marriage goes hand in hand. i feel sorry for your husband, not becasue you were not a virgin but because you lied to him.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Well, you can't go back and "re-virginate". Just tell him all about it. I married a women that had been VERY active prior to our first time. Next month we will see our 46th anniversary(2 sons& 3 grandkids). If he loves you, he'll get over it. BUT trust me, he'll always remember so be extra good to him(if you know what I mean?)
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 What did your husband say? Is he very angry, does he want a divorce?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This post is as cryptic as it can be.
1. Did you tell him you were a virgin before marriage?
2. Have you ever had any sexual encounter before marriage?
3. How come he knows that you are not a virgin anymore? Some women do not bleed on their first time. So blood is NOT an indication. Your gyn can help you better with that.
last but not least, don't panic.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Did you tell him you were a virgin? Did you lie about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): were you a virgin? If not what can the consequences be? Is this marriage to someone who you love and who loves you, or is it an arranged marriage?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Are you a virgin or are you not? And how long have you been married? And can he prove that you are not a virgin? What will happen now, will he divorce you?
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