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writes:So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to non-stop. I've been told he keeps her chat window up on facebook and talks to her all the time. When we first were dating he did the same with me. Texted me all the time and facebooked me all the time too. I'm very hurt by this and that he's moving on so fast. What should I do to get over this and not feel hurt about this? I don't want to feel hurt and upset that he's moving on so fast.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (29 July 2010):
Oh I know!!! Get a guy of your own on facebook that you really like, and have HIS chat window up all the time. See if that help you to get over your ex.
It's worth a shot :)
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reader, candygirl_iraq  +, writes (29 July 2010):
I read something a while ago like "Staying friends after a break up is like saying ,yeah the dog is dead but we can keep him". I tried staying friends with ex to get him back and that didnt work at all.All i got was heart break and rejection. Backing off is the best way to get over him. Im sure ur all over his FB or MySpace and stalking..we've all done that. Plus you know you've heard of the "rebound girl"...he's probably just lonely and looking for fun. Go out there and do that same hun :)
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we aren't friends. I think thats why we're in the limbo of never talking again and being friends. I need the time away for sure, it hurts though to see him dating a new girl. I don't know how to get past the hurt and not care about what he does.
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