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writes:Lately, I've been rather doubtful of my fiancé's loyalty. I caught him liking other girls photo on facebook. And suddenly I get all jealous. He wasn't normally like this. For weeks My gut has been telling me that he's not faithful. He gets all angry when I ask him about it. He claims all his facebook friends have been friends with him since high school.. I have been cheated on by 3 different guys from my previous relationships. All of those time I have the same eerie gut feeling about cheating. I have been together with my fiancé for close to 4 years. So.... Should I trust my gut or him?
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reader, KC12  +, writes (8 November 2014):
 Always trust your gut...
Being that you've been through this before (with the other 3 guys) your awareness is probably heightened. You're probably in tune to the behavior and "tell tale signs."
His projecting his anger onto you for questioning is very, VERY telling. He shouldn't be overreacting that way at all. He should be understanding...and kindly explain to you that you have nothing to worry about. That is what he would do IF you have nothing to worry about.
The guilty get angry when they are caught...or called out on their activity.
Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2014): I agree with another poster. He shouldn't be overreacting if you approach him. Kinda red flag. My ex was similar and was very guilty. They deflect the blame :(
He may not be "cheating" on you but you have to ask yourself
Am I ok with this behavior?
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (4 November 2014):
You are way overreacting. Getting mad and jealous because he likes other people's photos? Seriously, you have a major jealousy problem. You speak of absolutely no evidence of cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2014): I had a boyfriend who would do that, always on Facebook liking other women's photos. I thought it was very inappropriate. It turns out he was a serial cheater, among other things.
I've noticed through experience that guys who make you feel uncomfortable when it comes to other women, usually are cheaters.
When a man loves you and is not a cheater, he won't do these things and he'll never give you any reason to worry.
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reader, Zemllacyeht +, writes (4 November 2014):
Facebook and social media isn't too important. If he's like various girls then it's just like a man looking at women in public. But if he's liking a lot of one persons pics then it's something you need to look into
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