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writes:i was with my ex for 1 month and then found out she was pregnant. i was ok with it until i found out that she had been sleeping with her ex while she was with me. i left her then and she got back with her ex. all the 9 months she was ringing me saying that the baby was mine.. at the same time tellin him it was his.well when she was born dna proved she was mine. The ex left and we decided to give it ago.3 month down the line its over. and its realy hit me bad. its all coz i cant give her what he did...EVERYTHING. he was a dealer so he had cash... how can i get over it? its so hard coz ov my little girl...
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 dont know what to say, save take more care in choosing mates. this one cant rais a kid she cant handle her own life. Good luck I dont know what to tell you for resolving this mess though, I just hope the daughter is going to be ok in the end
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 i dont see anything being hard here only that you had a very unreliable and unfaithful exgirlfriend who happens to be a mother to your kid, remember that whatever you do this child didnt ask to be born in this mess, which means you have to find it in your heart to be the best father you can be and to make sure that your child has a father who loves her and will make sure that she is well maintained. sort out the mess with the mother and make a comfortable enviroment for your child to grow in because your problems must never affect the child's well-being. you can make arrangements with the mother how can see the child as i think the child is still very little to visit you overnight. it is going to be very challenging for you but it is a great fullfilment knowing you are part of your child's life.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 She's your daughter so you do what a man would do and make sure you're in her life. It's simple, go the extra mile and just BE THERE. From today on...forever. Shes's your child too. Fight for your rights.
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