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writes: Im in Canada my girlfriend is from England. she lives with me. She is a very sweet girl and cares a lot. However she looks through my texts, montiors my internet history, watches my eyes to see who i look at. Seems to be jealous if i say hi to another girl or talk to my ex. However she is great freind with 3 of her Ex's. She is bothered if i watch a tv show with "good looking' women on it. Gets very bent out of shape because i am going skiing for a weekend with my buddies. She also hasnt made anyfriends in the 9 months or so that she has been here. I had a girlfriend in highschool who acted the exact same way! I find it extremely immature and it frustrates me extremely!. Im now 26 and she is 23. Whats your opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): She sounds in secure- but keep encouragin her and supporting her and I dont quite think its an issue of trust, its more an issue of her insecurity. As long as you make her feel great- as long as she knows that you love her, then she should be reassured and not feel so bent out. Let her know its understandable that she is jealous- but you also have a life with your buddies etc. And that you will always be there for her and theres not alot for her to worry about. As long as shes comforted she might wane off a bit.Hope this helps!
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reader, NenaUnique  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 well i think she is afraid of getting cheated. and if you are an attractive guy then she knows that girls are probably wanting to get with you and she is afraid you'll get turned on by one and you know the rest,
orr maybe is that she has already been cheated and hurt and doesnt want you to do the same to her.
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reader, bexherbs  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I think firstly you need to encourage her to make friends etc..then i think you need to be patient and tell her your history of text etc is past and you should erase it to show it is.then i think she needs reassuring that your ex is just that and your with her and there are plenty of pretty girls out there, but again who are you with!If you have this heart to heart with her and things dont change just maybe your ex and this girl are'nt the tpye of girl you should be with.
good luck with it all bex x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 January 2007):
 She's living in a country where she has no friends. She only has you therefore if she loses you she loses everything she has. Encourage her to join some clubs and societies and hopefully she'll become less obsessed with you but if she doesn't just tell her that she's pushing you away by having to know every little detail, that she can and should trust you and that you're going nowhere. I'm sure that as soon as she starts to feel more secure life will improve mate. Hope this helps.
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