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what qualifies me....life like us all! in my 31 years i can say ive lived life to its fullest.my advice is from the heart because when trouble hits im there!

want advice on any of the following im your girl.......

eating disorders;anorexia bulima

prostitution;street,call girls,whore houses,escorts,

bisexual;female

drugs;cocaine abuse,alcoholism

or any other advice needed i'll give you sound advice peeps...

A little about me im a genuine girlie bexherbs!! i live in bedfordshire and have done all my life,after all home is where the heart is.mm and as for what makes me tick,living breathing every day and knowing one day i may make a diffence to someones life other than my own or my loves or my kids.but smile its free!!

thanks guys for reading and hi to you all as im new here!

i think this site is ****** fantastic

bexherbs xx

My husband has admitted he visited a brothel but said nothing happened. Do I believe him???

Q.   I recently found the numbers of two local brothels and two massage parlours in my husband's computer and on his mobile phone bill. When I asked him to explain he said he likes to ring them and ask about their services so he can masturbate as they ...

A.   8 February 2007: thousands of men before your husband have been lured by the temptation of internet porn,massage palours,brothels,lap dancing bars etc and the majority bottle out and i think you have to ask yourself what u belive he would do, how much you trust him ... (read in full...)

My husband took everything we had - trust, love, and ruined it by sleeping with a Thai bar girl...

Q.   I had a very happy marriage until about three months ago. My husband went on a business trip to Thailand and visited a go-go bar where he had protected sex with a bar girl. He got back and confessed the very same night but said he only had oral sex ...

A.   8 February 2007: hi,when trust is broken it hard to ever trust to the level you did b4.I think you have to look at what you are prepared to put up with and if he goes away again how will you feel?And if this is the start of betrayel because once is normally a start ... (read in full...)

My family's disapproval of my guy upsets me - how can I get them to see he's really a great person?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have always been on and off for the last year but something always keeps attracting us back together. when we fight its always about little stuff and is normally me who throws in the towel. this time tho we've decided to really ...

A.   15 January 2007: hi vixie,to me this is close to home! family disaprovel is hard but u know if you feel truely this guy for you and you truely dont care then go for it! Otherwise you may spend the rest of forever regreting it,take the bull by the horns and make it ... (read in full...)

My gf look at my interent history and seems jealous if I look at other women! What should I do?

Q.   Im in Canada my girlfriend is from England. she lives with me. She is a very sweet girl and cares a lot. However she looks through my texts, montiors my internet history, watches my eyes to see who i look at. Seems to be jealous if i say hi to ...

A.   15 January 2007: I think firstly you need to encourage her to make friends etc..then i think you need to be patient and tell her your history of text etc is past and you should erase it to show it is.then i think she needs reassuring that your ex is just that and ... (read in full...)

She won't answer any calls or texts, so I don't even know if we're still together! What do I do?

Q.   help me and my girlfriend of 4 years fell out at new year.id just spent a lovely xmas with her as we both have our own house. we would spend every weekend either at hers or mine. since the argument she wont talk or answer any txts i send in a nice ...

A.   15 January 2007: hi,i think you firstly need to ask yourself why u argued and then if you love her and she feels same way things will work out.however as hard as it is to be patient please stop give her time space and tell her so then sit and wait! if it meant to be ... (read in full...)

How do I help my grieving wife?

Q.   how can i help my wife whos just lost her dad. She was extremely close to him and is absolutly distrought. She gets upset an awfull lot which i can understand but she tends to hold it all back and it really hurts me to see her like that because you ...

A.   10 January 2007: grief,is the hardest thing in the world until you've been there its hard to empathize! I was in my late 20's when i lost my dad and 3 years on its still hard and the best advice i can give you is contuine to do what you are and letting her know your ... (read in full...)

My bf promised to break it off with his "geisha," but hasn't yet. How long should I wait for him to do so?

Q.   My boy promised to break it up with another girl. she's kind of like his "geisha." It's very painful to me, but we have a long-standing relationship and my heart is his. I can't contemplate another man without feeling like a cheater myself. How lo...

A.   10 January 2007: i truely think you should not allow this man to walk all over you if he contuines to see this geisha than he clearly has no respect for you! and as for the geisha he will mean nothing to her,if your not aware but these ladies are trained to be just... (read in full...)

My abusive ex who I have kids with stopped taking drugs and straightened himself out. Should I give him another chance, or stay with my new guy?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I married my high school sweetheart. We were together for 11 years total and have three children together. He was abusive both mentally and physically and had a severe substance abuse problem. I kicked him out over 5 1/2 years ago....

A.   10 January 2007: hi chick babe,yes stay strong and keep telling yourself why the relationship was as it was.and remember drugs mm for me thats an excuse he should of taken the bull by the horns before now to straighten himself out! its hard staying strong when youve ... (read in full...)

Am I bulimic like my friend was?

Q.   hey.. so i hve a problem a couple of months my friend started being bulimic and she lost about a stone and a half but she started couffing up blood now shes stopped but i think im starting to be - when i eat food it always makes me feel sick and...

A.   9 January 2007: babe,well done seeking help is the first thing you needed to do,seeing you may have a problem is the first step. but seriously you need to seek help because anorexia or bulima are both serious!! i myself suffered for 18 years and have been in full ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian. Please need advice.

Q.   hello i am quite young and i do not know if i am a lesbian or straight i really want to be straight but when i see pictures of naked girls i want to have lesbian sex and things does this mean im a lesbian? please help...

A.   9 January 2007: hormones they do strange things to a young girl of ten,my advice to you is these feelings are all normal.enjoy your friends and your childhood it goes to quick .if you do have major concerns there is help on sex education get a book from the libary ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian. Please need advice.

Q.   hello i am quite young and i do not know if i am a lesbian or straight i really want to be straight but when i see pictures of naked girls i want to have lesbian sex and things does this mean im a lesbian? please help...

A.   9 January 2007: hormones they do strange things to a young girl of ten,my advice to you is these feelings are all normal.enjoy your friends and your childhood it goes to quick .if you do have major concerns there is help on sex education get a book from the libary ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my insecurites over his porn viewing, even to the extent I cant bare him seeing women on the TV!

Q.   Im driving myself insane and probably ruining my relationship in the process! HELP! Ive posted on here before about my struggle to deal with finding that my boyf of nearly 4 yrs masturbates occasionally over page 3 girls and that I found a small ...

A.   9 January 2007: dear rachx,as hard as it is we all have times that we feel insecure about ourselves and even the best of us do to! try to remember that your the one he loves and is settled with and hey talk to him about your fears ! even make a suggestion if he ... (read in full...)

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