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writes:i liked this guy for a few months and i found out 5 days ago that my friend is dating him yes i was heartbroken but soon i git over it and just went on in life. But one day he texted me to come over at that moment i relised i still liked him but u went over to his house anyways as soon as i step inside i ask why he needed me all if a sudden he pushed me against the wall ( not to hard ) and kissed my neck of course i was turned on by this and let him do it for a few seconds he started to place his hands on my waist and go up my shirt a little as soon as that happened i pushed him off and said sorry he looked down and said its okay and let me go the next day in class he started staring at me and whenever i look back he would look away or nervously smile and look away what do i do about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2016): Your second friend's response is stupid. Going behind your friend's back to talk to him would be another betrayal. I would tell her and if she leaves him then only then can you pursue talking about it but to be honest he doesn't sound like a catch
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo i read the answers and i tried following them the only people who know this is my 2 bestfriends one says: to ignore him and act like nothing happened but for some reason when i try to i just can't do it and my other friend told me that whenever he is with his gf he us all sulkyand stuff and his gf seems to ignore that starts to kiss his cheek and whisper stuff in hus ear ( most likely to be suductive stuff) and it looks like he doesn't like it so my friend tells me to talk to him and ask why he did that and stuff but i really dont know what to do
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (19 February 2016):
 The reason you felt heartbroken is because you realized he can't be yours. Therefore, if you can't have him then don't bother with him. You went to his house and realized it's a mistake and you disconnected from him. So there is your answer what to do: disconnect. Don't look, don't talk, don't contact, don't see... Go into another direction. There is nothing that you can do with him. This is what all of your internal perception is saying. Follow it.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 February 2016):
 Why oh why did you agree to go over to his house ... it certainly doesn't sound like you went to borrow a cup of sugar.
Next time some guy asks you over to his, think about why you are being asked, what is the ulterior motive.
In the meantime do you think your friend is going to be happy to hear you went over to his house, and he tried it on?
Who is she going to believe do you think, him or you?
He was looking for some easy sex and you thought about giving it to him, only you know the reason why.
Examine your own behaviour very, very carefully and think about what sort of person you want to be, your decision will determine how you deal with his staring.
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