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My friend who I still love has come out of his relationship and still loves me, but now I am the one in a relationship! Help!

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Question - (11 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Heey, Last year i fell head over heels in love with my best friend and i told him, he told me he felt the same way but he was in a relationship. I was heartbroken and have always had a thing for him ever since. I recently go into a relationship and a few months in hes just broken up with his girlfriend and hes still in love with me! What should i do? Stay with the boy im madly in love with or get with the boy who broke my heart but i will always love him?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntGive that boy your madly in love with a chance, he may not break your hurt. The other had a chance and he broke your heart, first strike he's out.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (11 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell hun its your choice, your best friend had a choice when you told him you had feelings for him and he chose to stay with his girlfriend so its obvious it was her he wanted to be with not you, now that they are over he is telling you he still loves you, but if he loved you so much he would have got rid of his girlfriend when he knew you loved him aswell so dont fall for his story.

now saying that it is your choice, but if you love your boyfriend at the moment and you are happy with him then you wouldnt need to question breaking up with him now for your friend so just make the right choice for you.

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