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My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?

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Question - (26 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and since he came to the UK. Although he is begging to get back with her we still see eachother occasionally and he always wants to have sex with me - although it never happens because i can't.

I think he wants her back because of the Visa - our relationship was great before she filed for divorce. Why would he still want to see me then?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011):

Sounds like a selfish cheater who has no respect. Glad you dumped him.

Now the real question is not why he did this or that... it's a waste of time trying to understand this kind of person... but see if you've learned a bit about how to spot this kind of person so you can avoid them in the future.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (26 April 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntSounds to me like he is using you both. He doesnt care about her or you. You deserve better than this. This man is legally married therefore if he can do that to is wife then just think what he can do to you. You can do better than that believe me dont lower yourself to get with someone elses husband. go out and find your own man. Someone who will treat you with respect and be honest with you. This man will only bring heartache in the end. Goodluck.

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