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Problems with premature ejaculation!

Q.   Hi, I have a sex problem. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. He has always had a bit of a problem with premature ejaculation, not coming ridiculously quickly but the sex only ever really lasts ten minutes or something. Anyway, ...

A.   27 October 2011: also i am masturbating alot! too much i think....... (read in full...)

Problems with premature ejaculation!

Q.   Hi, I have a sex problem. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. He has always had a bit of a problem with premature ejaculation, not coming ridiculously quickly but the sex only ever really lasts ten minutes or something. Anyway, ...

A.   27 October 2011: Thank you all for replying, my boyfriend is very affectionate with me, and we do do foreplay, but when i have an orgasm i get greedy and I want more and more for ages, I think he thinks that I will be satisfied after one and then its his turn and we ... (read in full...)

Should I throw away our relationship for someone that I might not have a chance with?

Q.   I started to get close to this guy, I would only see him every couple of weeks but eventually he told me he was falling for me. I was very happy, because I was at last getting somewhere with him. Then I started hanging out with a friend of a friend...

A.   26 August 2009: I think you should split up with your boyfriend, whether or not you get with this other guy. it doesn't seem like you are that into him. I know what it's like when you are going off someone and the feeling i describe it as 'itchy' like you just dont ... (read in full...)

Do actions really speak louder than words? He never compliments me or tells me he loves me!

Q.   I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He has said he loves me about 3 or 4 times in our entire relationship, and it has always been prompted. He rarely tells me he likes me, cares about me, is proud of me, compliments me, ...

A.   26 August 2009: Oh this sounds complicated because you can only believe what he tells you he feels. What he says to you is true. If he knows that you want a bit more affection or a more loving sort of relationship, why doesn't he try a bit harder to give you that. ... (read in full...)

He's in love with someone else!

Q.   I have been with my Boy friend for a year and a half and we have our ups and downs and at one point I left as he was not given me what I wanted. he made a real effort and I finaly came round because he told me he loved me and that was horrible with ...

A.   26 August 2009: I really think you should leave him. You dont want to live you rlife with someone who is waiting to see what happens with someone else. why not go and find someone who wants you as there number one? i think its all very well if he had said, yes i ... (read in full...)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

Q.   Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

A.   16 July 2009: sorry just to let you know, i did not steal him they had been split up for about 3 months before anything happened between me and him.... (read in full...)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

Q.   Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

A.   16 July 2009: sorry just to let you know, i did not steal him they had been split up for about 3 months before anything happened between me and him.... (read in full...)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

Q.   Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

A.   18 June 2009: just to set things straight! it wasn't him who said that he didn't fancy me as much as her!!! it was his ex that said she thought that was why he didn't have the problem with me! when i asked him, he said that was ridiculous. I think you are ri... (read in full...)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

Q.   Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

A.   18 June 2009: just to set things straight! it wasn't him who said that he didn't fancy me as much as her!!! it was his ex that said she thought that was why he didn't have the problem with me! when i asked him, he said that was ridiculous. I think you are ri... (read in full...)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

Q.   Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...

A.   18 June 2009: just to set things straight! it wasn't him who said that he didn't fancy me as much as her!!! it was his ex that said she thought that was why he didn't have the problem with me! when i asked him, he said that was ridiculous. I think you are ri... (read in full...)

My ex is confusing me. What do you think she's doing?

Q.   I have been hanging out with my ex. And we keep hanging out more and more. She flirts with me and gets jealous when I am hanging out with other chicks. It seams like she wants to date me again, because she is really flirts and likes to put her ...

A.   21 November 2007: I know girls like this and i'm afraid to say they just play men. My boyfriend has this ex (who actually i do like as a person and we do talk as friends) but she was playing him and saying she loved him and flirting and stuff a while ago even though ... (read in full...)

I love sex with my guy but i dont think i have ever had an orgasm???

Q.   Hi This may seem strange but I am 23, I have a very loving boyfriend and he is really good sexually and will work for hours to ensure I get the pleasure i want even after he has cum. Thing is I really love it and I am always wanting sex and fore...

A.   27 August 2007: Well i reach a super intense feeling but it never goes! I don't really ever get satisfied as this feeling can carry on forever and i usually end up prentending to my guy that i have cum when really i could still carry on. Otherwise he could be at it ... (read in full...)

When i'm with him i'm so happy.

Q.   Dear Readers, i need your help me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 and a half years now and for the past month or so I've been thinking about breaking up with him... just because i have so many family problems and we hadn't been goin...

A.   25 August 2007: are you scared to be on your own, or are you really wanting to be in this relationshhip? Its hard to tell. i know that if i'm honest i am really rubbish at being on my own and have stayed with boyfriends before, for fear of being alone. If he really ... (read in full...)

I like a girl and she wants to have sex, but there is a problem...

Q.   hey everyone i met this new gurl and i rlly like her and she wants to have sex but evereytime i have sex i have this problem. i come to fast and then its ruined i was wondering if anyone could help me out or have any advice plz help...

A.   25 August 2007: this is an issue, all men have the fear about this problem because it is so taboo. Its way less obvious if a girl comes early (which i do) than a guy.) don't worry, if you are with a decent guy, or girl, the person will not care if you cum too ... (read in full...)

Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm??

Q.   Hey, Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm?? Everytime I orgasm I feel really guilty and wanna stop whatever I'm doing.. Eg masturbating, getting fingerd, sex.. Pleasseee I Want A Answer =[ xx...

A.   24 August 2007: it is normal!!!!!! she's not going to have some kind of mental problem just because she feels guilty after orgasm. It is normal to have any feeling after orgasm. It's a feeling a person cannot control, I have a friend who cries when she orgasms, ... (read in full...)

Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm??

Q.   Hey, Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm?? Everytime I orgasm I feel really guilty and wanna stop whatever I'm doing.. Eg masturbating, getting fingerd, sex.. Pleasseee I Want A Answer =[ xx...

A.   24 August 2007: I sometimes feel get a feeling similar to guilt after an orgasm, I have always thought it is perfectly normal. I don't think it is actually guilt that you are feeling though. There is nothing to feel guilty about, Don't listen to people telling you ... (read in full...)

I told a secret because I felt I had to, now my best friend hates me...

Q.   Ok so one of a really great friend of mine had her boyfriend dump her after she told him she might be pregnant, anyways it's really complicated in that area but what happened was my best friend had sex with the boyfriend and she told me. I had bee...

A.   22 August 2007: You've done the right thing, why would your best friend ever sleep with another girls boyfriend. Especially after all this happened. She should understand that you have a loyalty to your other friend too and that she did wrong. She shouldn'... (read in full...)

I do love her, just not as much as the other girl (who lives far away) and am worried that it is a mistake not marrying my number one choice.

Q.   I need your advice. I love two women, one I love more than the other and think we are more compatible and she is my soul mate, but she is not available to fully commit to me. The other one is putting pressure on me to marry her and said that she ...

A.   22 August 2007: i'm sorry, I do understand this situation quite well and I don't think you will like my answer. BUT, you still cannot marry your current girlfriend, especaially if you have been cheating on her with the girl you love more. You will always been ... (read in full...)

I'm concerned that my 2 year old niece has been abused and therefore masturbates when she goes to bed.

Q.   My niece is 2 years old girl and whenever she goes to bed she puts her hand under her and humps the bed... kind of like mastubation. people always wonder why she does this and im not sure if she is being treated right. she is locked in the room ...

A.   22 August 2007: i don't think the fact that your 2 yr old neice masturbates can be directly linked to her perhaps being abused. I think her being locked in a room with her dad, it COMPLETELY STRANGE. why does he not work? where does the mum go whilst this happens? ... (read in full...)

Is the old saying true??? "Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?"

Q.   Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?!? Help! My boyfriend and I recently got back together after being broke up for several months! I have a really difficult situation... I was best friends with his sister for 2 years of highschool! She would ...

A.   21 August 2007: It seems to me that your boyfriends sister is acting strangly, she has told you to watch out for him (which may be quality advice) but you know how you behave and if her saying to him to watch out for you is silly, then she deffinitely doesn't want ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to ask this guy out online. Any tips?

Q.   i am 11 years old fat and ugly. my best friend introduced me to this guy over msn and i really like him but he never saw me and I keep having dreams of me kissing him. i want to ask him out but im worried that once he sees me he wont like me any ...

A.   20 August 2007: seriously you are 11. You cannot think that you are fat and ugly, and you cannot just settle for some guy you have met on msn! Have you ever met him? If he was a decent bloke he wouldn't care if you were overweight and didn't look like some ... (read in full...)

I do love her, just not as much as the other girl (who lives far away) and am worried that it is a mistake not marrying my number one choice.

Q.   I need your advice. I love two women, one I love more than the other and think we are more compatible and she is my soul mate, but she is not available to fully commit to me. The other one is putting pressure on me to marry her and said that she ...

A.   20 August 2007: sorry I am probably not in a position to answer this question with any sort of experience in marriage, however, it seems to me that the more important person in this is the love which is far away, you said' but she is not fully able to commit to ... (read in full...)

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