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30-35,
*en345
writes:I am a 19 year old guy with a crush on my female friend. We have always jokingly flirted but I've started to really like her. She missed a week of uni and when she came back she told me that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for four months and they had split. I joked that I would 'go beat him up' for her, and sent her a nice text along with a cheesy joke to cheer her up, to which she responded 'hahaha, that was brilliant bab' and then 'your jokes always make me laugh :)'. Why am I telling you this? Because I don't know whether to make my move or not, or how to do it. Bluntly asking her out right now just seems insensitive and wrong. How can I gently hint that I like her and I would love to make her my girlfriend?
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reader, ben345 +, writes (16 April 2013):
ben345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt isn't my plan to 'get in there' while I can, I just genuinely like her and am scared of losing her to someone else.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (16 April 2013):
 I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou !If you want something more then a roll in the hay with this girl, LET her GET OVER the ex first. BE there for her and hold back those hormones.
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