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writes:Hey okay im 17 and in all honesty i am fairly new in the whole dating and sex game and my boyfriend whom im been with for a year already want to have sex....problem is i don't because Im nervous and scared as all hell.....what do i do??? HELP!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we talked...we are still together and he understands that me being a virgin means allot to me. so thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. Conclusion to this story is that we are done...He wasn't the right guy for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Firstly, in my opinion there isn't a right or wrong age to lose your virginity, if you're in a stable relationship (which it souns like you are), and if you love and trust the guy. But, if you are nervous talk it through with your boyfriend, if he's worthy of taking your virginity he'll respect your choice, if he doesn't you're better of without him :)
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reader, Myau  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 I lost my virginity at 19, i think that was a good age.I was ready then, and i actually made my gf wait a month as she wasnt a virgin. But as it was my first relationship I wanted it to be special, and it was. So until you're ready tell him you have a headache
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 If you're nervous and scared as hell, then it is simply *not* right for you to do it. Which means you say NO. And keep saying no. And if he pressures you regardless, you break up with him.
It's a big deal, and it has to feel right. And that's something that comes from *you*. When it's right for you, it can be a wonderful experience. Hold out for that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 April 2010):
If you are not ready, then you need to explain that to him and be honest. There is no rush to have sex. There are plenty of people on here who will tell you that they rushed into it and now regret it. So slow down, explain to your boyfriend that you're not ready just yet. If he is a good boyfriend, he will understand and wait.
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