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*oyie
writes:For sometime now my bf has not called me,i've been the one calling,the last time i did we agreed to see each other when i come to campus but we didn't cos he didn't call to know if i have arrived so we could see and i didn't call him either cos i was too busy and i left on time.i called him later and he said he wasn't fine cos he was busy all day repairing his computer. I understood that but since then he hasn't called me.wat could be his probs,should i keep calling or wait for him to call me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 August 2013):
 if he's not calling you or making plans with you then he's just riding along in this relationship boat because it's easier for him than ending it.
IF you don't call him what happens? does he eventually call you for sex? if so, stop seeing him for sex and stop calling him. Let him make a bit of the effort... if he makes no effort then he's not as into you as you are into him.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (9 August 2013):
 Hi,
Please go with Intuition, deep down you already know there is something off as you seem to be the only one trying to make the relationship work by calling him and arranging meetings.Even if he is busy he should call you. No matter how tempting please don't call him allow him to call you the next time and the next time and the next time after then. Allow him to chase after you once again not the already way round. In the Meanwhile while waiting go out and have fun with your friends and make more friends.
Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2013): Have a little pride. he should call you.
so just wait and while you wait have fun. don't just focus your thoughts of him.
it will just drive you crazy.
good luck.
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