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female
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36-40,
*oshaudrey
writes:hi..i met a guy off the internet..He's 20 years my senior and i was attracted to him in every way..After 2 weeks of chatting he came to my country to meet me. He's a very busy man, owns several companies and never stayed in another country for more than 3 days for business or even pleasure. But he spent a week with me. We were so in-love with each other and could not believe its happening. i introduced him to my family to make the relationship official. But when he left, things started to change. He became so jealous of everything, my past or my activities. He would ask me almost everyday if I'm chatting with another person. i can feel that he doesn't trust me. Whenever we talk we use MSN, had problems with webcam so i gave him my YM too..Recently, he's been accusing me of staying up all night chatting using my YM. Which is not true at all. I told him i don't know why it shows up on his end that my YM is on calling/webcam mode. I got so irritated that i told him I'm fed up of his accusations and asked him to talk to me when he thinks better of me..The other day we were so happy, he said he'll be back in 2 weeks. But yesterday, we broke up.He said, I'm a liar and deleted me from his YM, MSN and others. He also said goodbye and would never bother me again.Last night i texted him, asking to call me and talk things over. But no response. When i woke up i texted him again saying he was right, that we should be broken up and that is probably the best thing for both of us.He replied right away. He said he didn't like me lying to him. He said its not good for our relationship and that i have to think it over and tell that to my heart and mind..I still love him.Should i reply to his response?what should i say?Please help me. Its driving me crazy :(
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reader, Kayie  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Thats ok babe, just stay strong!
because life goes on regardless, xx
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reader, poshaudrey +, writes (3 May 2010):
poshaudrey is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you Kayie! I feel stronger already..
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reader, poshaudrey +, writes (3 May 2010):
poshaudrey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe called me today, i thought he would say sorry thats why i answered but NO. He still wants to talk about the YM thingy.
I cried out of frustration, he listened but didn't believe me of course. he said he talked to a customer support from Yahoo and only validated that I'm lying.
I dropped the call. I was so upset. He sent another email after that, asking again.
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reader, Kayie +, writes (3 May 2010):
It looks like your boyfriend has made up his mind and is not going to change it no matter what you say or do. To be honnest if he cannot trust you enough to believe you then there isnt much of a relationshi there anyway, obvioulsy he has issues with trust. You cant help him if he wont help himself darling, I dont know why he is telling you to think things over, its him that needs to think about it. You should just not text him back and although it hurts, time heals.
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