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writes: When me and my bf were going out it was great, and even though I didn't find myself attracted to him, I gave it a go. It has lasted nearly a year!! However recently he has become a little distant. He has always been flirty with other girls in front of me and they both love it. He expects me to accept this and be cool watching this. I have tried doing this back but he doesn't really understand and gets equally jealous. Then I feel bad. I feel like I'm trapped. People say I am an attractive girl and I do get attention from other guys. I am the quiteer type compared to him as he is naturally confident and has an attractive personality (what made me fall for him). What can I do to help break the cycle??!! Help!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (3 January 2006):
 Dearie, my own advise is that u tell him u dont like him flirting with other girls. You shouldnt accept that if u arent happy with it. You turned the table on him and now he feels bad. good!!!
Well, u must ask urself what u feel for him and how he makes u feel about yourself that is equally important. If u do love him then maybe u can work on things. Tell him the problems here and both of u can work on things.
But if u u indeed feel trapped and that u arent getting much of his attention then move to someone else who would give u that. Dont stay becos u feel u arent attractive enough to get any other guy or will be lonely cos i am sure u are attractive as people say. if at all u want to stay let it be becos u love him.
Good luck dear.
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