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My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!

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Question - (18 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex...

I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and he shook his head and looked away..then he left..i was so ashamed..and my bf was shocked..and he told me that all his mother said was "next time, leave the pants on"

Now..its not a big deal since they didnt catch us..and now..im so ashamed i dont want to go over to their house...and my mom doesnt allow boys over..for that reason..i feel like i disappointed his parents..and it was awkward on the ride home..how do i get over this?

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A female reader, cherri sparkle United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2007):

look if you're mature enough to be having sex you should be mature enough to understand so do parents thats how we all got here of course they understand at least he had a sense of humour about it. he will remember those times himself sneaking around no-where else to go and being young and well...just swallow your pride and laugh it off everybody has been caught at one time or another no biggie

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

katzkitten agony auntyou need to be more careful in future...and faster. lol. im guessing your round aout ht same age as me maybe a lil older, anyway if you fell you want to do things like that your just going to have to live with the concicuneces and be more careful. i mean just laff it off, try and forget about it and get on with life. thats what id do. your onli young, you'll get over it. hope that helped xxx

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A male reader, The Fonz United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

The Fonz agony auntJust be thankful that you were caught AFTER. This situation could have been much worse, but is also a situation you could have not put yourselves in.

Just make sure that in future, you respect the parents enough to not be doin anything like that in their house, especially when the parents are close by.

I am sure this can be settled easily enough by getting to know the family a little better and let them see the real you. This will ease in time, but let this be a lesson learned.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntYou need to learn to keep your pants on girl! There will be time enough for that to happen. You have to learn to respect people's homes and people's rules. His dad was probably thoroughly disgusted with you. Now it's up to YOU to prove you're not that kind of person by your actions. I would apologise to his dad and tell him it wasn't what it seemed like and it certainly won't happen again. Sit down with the family and get to know them better, that way they'll be able to see that you're a nice girl and not just there for a quick leg over with their son.

Eve

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