How do I start a conversation with boyfriend about unplanned pregnancy?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have started to have sex. Yes we use protection, but there is always a chance of pregnancy, and I believe it is the right thing if we talk about what we would do in that situation now then if it might happen. I want to know his ...
A. 17 October 2010: Oh turns out parenting class helped me out with this :P
We had to figure out what like certain people would say if you told them you were pregnant. Me him and his best friend started talking like seriously what we would do. Yea his bestfriend ther... (read in full...)
Why wont he kiss me when we're having sex?
Q. Well, my bf and I have been going out for a month and a half now. And everything, has been going quite well. Though, there is a problem, he wont kiss me when were having sex, or when i give him a blow job. I dont get it, is it me, he use to not be ...
A. 17 October 2010: there are some guys that don't like kissing during sex.
You should ask him why not us. Or even try to kiss him and if he pulls away well you try say why not? ... (read in full...)
How do I start a conversation with boyfriend about unplanned pregnancy?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have started to have sex. Yes we use protection, but there is always a chance of pregnancy, and I believe it is the right thing if we talk about what we would do in that situation now then if it might happen. I want to know his ...
A. 10 October 2010: Oh believe me I am comfortable talking about it, just how to start it Im never sure. And we have kindda talked about it, like we were joking around about how I am in parenting class and I am paired up with my Best guy friend. And I was like what ... (read in full...)
He always stops before he ejaculates
Q. So I'm not sure what to make of my new bf's sexual technique, and I'd love some comments about why he doesn't ejaculate from any female and esp. male readers, please. We've been together 2 months, sleeping together for a couple of weeks. He's ...
A. 10 October 2010: That's what my boyfriend does when we don't have condom's. But I am on the pill and he just thinks it is just that extra way to break down any chances. But .... I do think it's weird that he doesn't ejaculate at all ... cause my boyfriend still does ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about pregnancy?
Q. The other night me and my boyfriend were having sex and he pulled out when he felt he was going to cum, which is what he always does but this time when he looked at his penis there was already a white liquid on the tip of hos penis and 2 seconds ...
A. 26 September 2010: Are you on birth control? Because if you are using the pull out method, there is ALWAYS a risk of pregnancy especially if it is your only means of birth control. Even if he didn't actually cum inside of you there is always a chance that "pre cum" ... (read in full...)
Do you only bleed the first time you have sex?
Q. i lost my virginity to my boyfriend last week, but afterwards i bled. a lot. i figured that it was because my cherry got popped, and that it would be a one time thing. i guess not. i've had sex twice since, but both times i've bled, and i'm not at ...
A. 25 September 2010: Ummm I am fairly sure that it is not a good thing. I only have one thing that you should and need to do..... please GO SEE A DOCTOR. ... (read in full...)
I want to know how my boyfriend feels about me
Q. Me and my boyfriend haven't really hangout in awhile just us because school has began we have just both been really busy. And he is the kind that jokes around a lot. And this weekend once again for the 3rd one in a row I can't see him in person ...
A. 25 September 2010: i would but we're still onlt 17 :P
And his parents would never let me sleep in the same hotel as him.
His got pregnant when she was 16 and reminds us often that she's not stupid she know the kinds of things teenagers want to be doing :P ... (read in full...)
I love her so much but I don't think I can deal with her new rules about sex!
Q. My girlfriend and i have only been dating for two months. i am 16 but a romancer all the same. i lost my virginity to this girl and i love her. its not about the sex and i dont think she realizes it. in two months we have only dont it three times. ...
A. 24 September 2010: Try talking to her why, she feels this way. Maybe she really doesn't know that your not only in it for the sex. The only reason I know my bf wasn't was because we waited 7 months because I wasn't ready. Maybe she isn't sure if you love her body or ... (read in full...)
I Don't Feel Pretty Enough To Be With Him
Q. So..I'm dating this guy, and he's really sweet and nice, and I think he's really hott. But I just don't feel pretty enough to be with him. I asked him if he could change anything about me, what would it be, and he said he'd make me have bigger ...
A. 21 September 2010: He could have been joking. My bf actually does that ..... like he'll joke around ... but now it's i'd make your boobs smaller cause I went from a B - a D in one summer. But he could be joking. He is with you because he likes you and he probably ... (read in full...)
I asked my boyfriend a question should I be mad for the answer he gave me?
Q. [Mod note* poster your suggested title was already taken]I asked my man, an "If we were to break up" question. I asked would you still love me? his answer was "probably". But If I was asked this question I would say I def would, without a doubt ...
A. 15 September 2010: no I understand how you feel, It happens to me sometimes too with my boyfriend, questions that I am so sure of the answer, he's not. So you start to feel like you care more then her does. But really maybe he's thinking.... well depends on how we ... (read in full...)
My ex best friend told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more and I'm so upset...
Q. My ex best friend told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more. She said i brought stress to her life. I don't know how but she said i did. I cried so much. That was in june. We have 2 classes together this year. She seems so happy and ...
A. 14 September 2010: Ok ... so I must share with you my story cause reading this made me cry, knowing that someone else out there is having not close, but word for word the same problem as I am. Although mine involved fight after fight, before that and I still don't ... (read in full...)
How can I remind myself to take my birth control pill?
Q. What are some ways to remind your self to take your birthcontrol? so far I have an alarm on my laptop and an alarm on my phone and my Ipod dock and Ipod it's self and sometimes I STILL forget. What are some other ways incase I am not around a...
A. 14 September 2010: Thank-you everyone for answering.
Someone said something bout making my bf take some responsibility. I think I really am going to try that one. I know he had to keep reminding his cousin basically sister this summer soooo, I hope if it has to d... (read in full...)
Coould he possibly love me after all the time we've been together?
Q. Guys: Why would you not love someone after one year of liking them and 7 months of dating. For the first 6 months we only made out it never went further. He wasn't 100% for it but respected my wishes. But all he can still say is I really like you ...
A. 6 September 2010: Yeaaa i know it doesn't have a timestable , but at my age i dont think like a week of dating can have some one fall inlove, either cause most people my age dont even really know each other. I was just letting you know we've known each other for a ... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool?
Q. Do you think there is a chance that my relationship is strong enough but still casual enough to last through highschool? .. Sorry if this gets long I just really want some peoples advise and thoughts. I am dating this guy and he had liked me sin...
A. 3 September 2010: it's not that we couldn't we just have it .. in ways we are both kindda against saying because you see so many relationships where on the first day they are like I love you, Forever babe... and it's not very realistic .... ... (read in full...)
My heart just got broken, anyone got any advice to make me feel better?
Q. this is the first time I ever asked a question I need advise...I've been with this guys since last year on and of and I really love him he says he loves me but yet he tells me he still has feelings for his ex I already broke up wit him but this time ...
A. 2 September 2010: First off. Take a deep breath.
Break ups can be hard even if you know they are the best for you. And they are worse when it ends because of someone else. Don't dwell on him. But at the same time when you do think of him. Don't think about that... (read in full...)
What is the best way to get my girlfriend into bed and to make sure she enjoys her first time?
Q. Me and my lass are both virgins, but we've started to get serious. But, I'm not totally sure what's the best way to get her into bed, and what...foreplay and position that will pleasure her the most. I know it's an awkward topic, but any help?...
A. 2 September 2010: I agree with the girl before me. You can only have this conversation , with her. Then you aren't ready to have sex. This topic really is not awkward at all. Talk to her about it. Let her know you are ready for sex. And ask if she feels the same ... (read in full...)
He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?
Q. okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot ...
A. 2 September 2010: Well, there is a chance he took advantage of you.
Another chance is it could be freak timing like that day he is really.
He could or could not reply. But ... i am very sorry to say this but I think he is using you. ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself happy again?
Q. I feel very alone .... right now like as if no one cares about me. And idk why. I think most of it has to do with I have been alone all summer. I am every summer. I don't get those wooottt hanging out with my friends all summer. And it's killing me ...
A. 1 September 2010: I don't have dreams.
And no i am not heartbroken.
My boyfriend is amazing ... he's just always busy. ... (read in full...)
My daughter is feeling left out! What should I do?
Q. Feeling Very Hurt and Left Out I helped someone out with her daughter lots of times, and I became friends with the mom. We went to our kids' activities together and we invited her daughter over as she was the same age as my daughter. M...
A. 31 August 2010: I was like that when I was a kid.
I just didn't like the other girls, they were mean to me because I didn't always like the things they did. Maybe your daughter doesn't want to be there,
When I was a kid people always put us in groups boys or ... (read in full...)
What would be considered to be a serious relationship for high school students?
Q. What do you consider to be a serious relationship ? For a teenager that is. I am not really sure if you would consider my relationship serious. Even though like my mom does, his family does. But sometimes it's iffy, like we will one day hangout and ...
A. 31 August 2010: Sorry, tennisstar88 but no I don't think that is. Half of those reasons are what I call an immature relationship.
Thanks- you iguess, that's pretty much what me and my bf discussed. But he considers serious married. Because it's the biggest ... (read in full...)
He doesn't make time for me anymore
Q. Hi. I have always enjoyed reading this site as it seemed like people were always honest and nice, so im hoping someone can maybe help me. Ive been going out for my boyfriend for about 11 months and he's always been super sweet and nice, and a...
A. 31 August 2010: Maybe he feels you didn't put as much into as he did and he feels it's his turn to be on the receiving end?
There might be the possibility he doesn't feel he has to try as hard anymore because h does already have you. I have like heard stories ... (read in full...)
Freaked out BF in bed and he left!
Q. ok -- this is going to take a second so I will do a TL;DR. first, this is a throwaway account b/c... so, here's the deal: tonight I totally freaked out my boyfriend. I had hidden a piece of a hot dog (about 2 inches) which I had broken off before ...
A. 30 August 2010: :S,
well I think he over reacted.
.... I think it is a pretty funny joke most guys I know like fantasize but that kind of shit. Like .... idk... what his problem is :/ but soryy I i just think his reaction is pretty stupid.... (read in full...)
Big tummy equals small penis?
Q. Dear cupid.please give me a clarity of this: are men with bigger bellies/tummy/stomach have a small penis size?the reason im asking is i hear people gossiping about it and a boy who is 'into' me now has a biger belly.whats yo experience on ...
A. 29 August 2010: No that's not true. My boyfriend has it a bit Bigger. And his penis isn't small. ... (read in full...)
Surely its up to me if I watch porn! Isn't it?
Q. Men are visual when it comes to sex! Its a fact..so if your girlfriend will not do sertin things in bed then is it really that rong to watch porn? Insted of tryin to make her do sertin things that she don't wanna do I think she should be fine with ...
A. 29 August 2010: I agree that it's the guys choice, I know that if my boyfriend doesn't see me for like weeks he will, and yea i WILL NOT, watch it my self. But it's his choice. I just don't want to hear about it.
But ... if your watching it all the time? Th... (read in full...)
13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!
Q. Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a ...
A. 23 August 2010: First, tell your mom.
Second, you don't have to pay for an abortion.
I am fairly sure.
BUT TELL YOUR MOM!
And can I give you some advice?
STOP having sex! Your 13!, that is 3 years older then my little sister, and many young kids ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel anything during sex?
Q. Why don't I feel anything during sex? This past time was only my 2nd time. And I don't feel anything, afterwards the first time I felt a little sore. When he fingers me I do feel that. It's really bothering me that there is like no real ...
A. 23 August 2010: um idk?
I am pretty sure I didn't measure it ?
And well it;s big enough were he has troubles getting it in.... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel anything during sex?
Q. Why don't I feel anything during sex? This past time was only my 2nd time. And I don't feel anything, afterwards the first time I felt a little sore. When he fingers me I do feel that. It's really bothering me that there is like no real ...
A. 21 August 2010: I am not talking about not feeling pleasure, I am talking about not feeling him even go inside of me, even though I am really tight. And we do lots of fore play BELIEVE me..... I feel that .... but when he actually goes it I don't feel him go in ... (read in full...)
Am I being too uptight about this?
Q. I need some advice. My husbands parents go to these bike rallies where all the women walk around completely naked and you can see ppl getting blow jobs and having sex and stuff. Anything you can think of goes on at this place. Well they keep asking ...
A. 20 August 2010: Wh don't you offer to go with him? Then maybe you can feel better about it and maybe even have fun?
And I have to agree, with the person before me I can't see how going with his parents would be fun .... considering you say all the women walk aro... (read in full...)
I get sick from the birth control pills!
Q. Hi :) i'm currently taking the pill (Microgynon 30) and it makes me feel so nauseus for a few hours each day and I hate it! I started it about 2 months ago and took it for a month, it made me ill but I continued taking it. Then I had the week's ...
A. 16 August 2010: The might be a chance that is is just the type and for some reason doesn't agree with your body. I would go to the your doctor and ask them. I know I was feeling sick from mine or I went instead of to a male doctor, to this nurse place and she ... (read in full...)
Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?
Q. Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us....
A. 16 August 2010: Well, depends are you cousins by marriage? Is that what you mean by not being blood related? Some people will probably not understand if you say Cousin. But if she has no blood relation to you then she is not really your cousin ... so i'd leave the ... (read in full...)
Do guys appreciate a girl who says no to unsafe sex?
Q. Do guys really think better of a girl, who, wont have sex without a condom. A lot of people say that guys really appreciate and that. But in ways it sounds like away to get people into safe sex. Cause i know my boyfriend sometimes will be like "well ...
A. 15 August 2010: No a rufuse to to have sex without a condom, I am on , birth control, and it is not 100%. ... (read in full...)
How long does it take the average guy to cum?
Q. So my question is simple I was just wondering how long does it take the average guy to cum ..... like for a guy does it happened quicker during intercourse compared to oral ? ...
A. 9 August 2010: 30 seconds ?
wow ...... that deff didn't happen.
me and my boyfriend are sexually active.
I just wanted to know the average.
Cause during oral ..... it take him forever. ... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: All this people already answered all your questions, but I am going to give you a suggestion:
Don't use the sponge, there are so many chance that in "the heat of the moment." It will not be used correctly.
Bitch control is not 100% and in 99%... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 7 August 2010: my boyfriend isn't I don't really care. And any people that do have problems. ... (read in full...)
We were supposed to get married, but instead we drifted apart.
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for about 5 years (we study abroad and lived together for 1 year but our parents didn't know because we are christian orthodox and his father is a priest and very strict and wouldn't approve). At the end of the s...
A. 6 August 2010: I think you need to be strong here and tell him that it's over. Because even if he does it's obvious his parents do not approve of you for some reason. Do you want to spend your whole life with a guy who doesn't even know if he wants you? He is ... (read in full...)
Can anyone answer my questions about what to expect...
Q. hello, im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt and we want 2 have sex with each other its just that im scared and he doesnt pressure me in2 it he says he can wait! Well he suggested fingering me 1st and i was just wondering since im a virgin will it ...
A. 6 August 2010: It will probably hurt just a bit at first, for me thats what my boyfriend did, we only did oral for 2 months of our relationship so when we did have sex it didnt hurt at all. And for me it did feel good. ... (read in full...)
How do I get other girls to like me?
Q. girls just never like me. I am not a mean person. Some times I will never even talk to a girl and she'll HATE me. Start rumors about how i called her a slut. But I am not like that i don't take about people behind their backs. So I am stuck being ...
A. 6 August 2010: Sorry brown wolf don't think other girls can classifie OTHER girls as players. I am a girl ....
Thanks babyrlene, and yea that's what my guy friends tell me. But they say they are jealous of my legs (they are like REALLY LONG!) .... but I like you... (read in full...)
He's friends with someone I barely dated, now he's acting off.
Q. Ughh. Guy problem here. Right, i was with a group of mates going to the park one day when we were meeting up with another group of people that my friend new. Amongst these group of people was this really cute nice guy and we got talking and stuf...
A. 6 August 2010: Well it sounds to me like, maybe you guy friend that you did date, maybe possibly still likes you? Cause since he's friends with the guy you dated it sounds like for the guy you now like thinks your off limits cause he doesn't want to hurt he's ... (read in full...)
Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?
Q. dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know...
A. 5 August 2010: Um no it doesn't, but it can I am told if she is not wet it is uncomfortable. ... (read in full...)
My b/f is my BFF and the only person I trust, I don't want to rely on only him, Please Advise.
Q. I don't think I actually have one question, and it's not really a problem just I like to hear other peoples stories and options on things. You see the thing is at the moment I have no, real girl friends. So I really don't have anyone to talk to. I ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thanks the only thing I have different is the guys that I am friends with and so is he is because i've been hanging out with them for ever .... they really are my best friends not because of him more like he's my boyfriend because we were friends. ... (read in full...)
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