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Ex cheated on me saying it was a one night stand, I find out now it was a friend and he is dating her!
Q. This may be long but advice and motivation from anyone would be really appreciated! So just a couple months ago my bf of three years confessed to me he cheated on me. He told me it was some random girl he hooked up with a party and I believed...
A. 16 December 2011: First of all let me say I know exactly how you feel, the same thing happened to me! You explained the pain perfectly and i feel so sorry for you to be going through this now! At the end of the day nothing I or anyone else says will stop that pain, ... (read in full...)
I think something strange is going on with my husband and his former boss's wife!
Q. My husband used to work for someone and he always had a questionable relatiolnship with the boss's wife. It was so bad that his co-workers used to kid him about inheriting the business and that the boss's kids were really his. He eventuallty ...
A. 16 December 2011: It sounds like you're never going to trust the two of them together and if they are going into business together then it will just drive you mad! Have you mentioned anything to your husband about your doubts and worries? You need to ask him to be ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.
Q. Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...
A. 31 August 2011: I think your making a big deal over nothing but that could just be my opinion because i am quite open minded and sex has never been a subject that has made me disgusted or uncomfortable!
People make silly mistakes and bad decisions when they are... (read in full...)
My ex moved in with his new girlfriend so quickly!
Q. Its so hard to explain how I really feel.. I just recently found out that my ex bf of five years, just moved in with his new gf.. We broke like a year and a half.. He's only been with with this girl a couple of months and he's already living with ...
A. 31 August 2011: Its always hard to see someone who once meant everything to us move on with someone else. Especially when you expected to spend the rest of your life with them! It's hard because you could never imagine seeing them with somebody else and then wh... (read in full...)
How do you make your relationship last during college?
Q. I was wondering, how do you make your relationship last during college? My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year, and things are amazing. We both want to make it work, and I'm looking for advice on how we can work. We'll both be going to...
A. 13 July 2011: Your worrying way to much! Your relationship has already lasted a year and I'm assuming that seen as your just starting college that you have sat your GCSE's? This is one of the most stressful times for people your age and your relationship has ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to bleed?
Q. Hi I would like to seek some advice. My bf and I had intercourse for the first time. We're both virgins. But I did not bleed. I thought virgins are supposed to bleed on their first time. Is it normal?...
A. 17 June 2011: Its completely normal not to bleed! some girls do and some girls dont! I didnt bleed because i tore that little bit of skin when i was quite young due to me being a horse rider. Be thankful you didnt bleed :) less mess and makes the wole experience ... (read in full...)
Are we related?
Q. if you are dating your cousins cousin on a different side of the family are we cousins? ...
A. 17 June 2011: If its your cousins cousin then i dont think your related...
the connection between you would be your Mums OR Dads, Brothers OR Sisters Childs Uncles OR Aunties Child... So if the person is related to your uncle or aunties partner (through mar... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth about these text messages?
Q. Please help me! Okay, so I check my bfs phone every now and then ... i never find/see anything innappropriate so, im always happy with what i see, checking his phone kindda reassures me that - well i dont really know cause i know that he wouldnt ...
A. 17 June 2011: Is it really the worst thing if your boyfriend was bragging about you having sex? Why would that even bother you? I dont think your wrong for checking your boyfriends phone but i dont think you fully trust him if you feel the need for reassurance! ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to use another guy's pictures when chatting to her? Or is she over-reacting?
Q. I had been talking to this girl for a few weeks just for fun and chatting with her. Initially I posted this other guys pictures. She got really upset and yelled at me and also removed me as her contact. From my understanding we flirted but ther...
A. 17 June 2011: I think that this girl is probably a bit freaked out that you were trying to hide your identity! how can she trust you after this? you could of been anybody pretending to be somebody else! Think how you would feel if you had been chatting to someone ... (read in full...)
I think he has become addicted to swinging and I want out, but I don't want to leave him. What should I do?
Q. I dont know what to do. My partner and I, both professionals in our late 40's, decided to try swinging three years ago. I dont want to say I was forced into it, or that it was all his idea. I probably didnt object that much either. But then...
A. 17 June 2011: I think you need to sort this before it goes any further! Have you told your husband that you really don't enjoy it anymore and want to stop? If not then this is deffinately the first step you need to take! obviously if you were both to stop this ... (read in full...)
Since we've been back in contact I feel I love him more than when we were together, but at the same time can't deal with his cheating and friendship with another girl!
Q. Hey, I'm so confused. Me and my boyfriend split about a month ago due to him cheating, I cut all contact with him and didn't hear or see him for this month. Although I did still always think about, I kept telling myself he cheated I deserve better. ...
A. 17 June 2011: from an outside point of view i think you should move on! I know thats easier said than done but the worst thing to do is obsess over him and try and contact him! He cheated and you do deserve better! When you left him it was for a reason and you ... (read in full...)
Do I have a criminal record?
Q. Hello guys Im really worried about this, maybe im stressing about nothing, I really don't know, in 2007 I was arrested, police said I was taken in for writing CDs, then I spent a weekend at the mini-jail, the following day my fingerprints were taken ...
A. 9 June 2011: It is different in every country! The best thing to do is call your local police station (Not the emergency services because this is not an emergency!) and just ask if there is anybody you can speak to about this! They will advise you who you need ... (read in full...)
I want to prove to him that I do want a threesome with another girl, I just don't know how to find the girl!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We're freaky and adventurous, him so more than I, and we got on the topic of threesomes. I'm very shy and still learning things about me. I don't mind being with a woman but men are my main ...
A. 9 June 2011: It sounds to me as though your looking for something more than sex with this woman? Why would you want someone so perfect? If it is just for sex simply go for someone who you think is good looking and up for some fun! I wouldn't go for somebody too ... (read in full...)
I broke my partner's sim card because of this young girl who texts him, do you think I need help?
Q. I feel guilty and bad...last night after being so fed up of this young girl texting my partner I broke his Sim card on his phone. I know that he dosen't see her in a sexual way, and that he is just being nice, but she bugs the hell out of me by ...
A. 9 June 2011: If i was you i would of spoken to the girl and just told her that it wasnt acceptable for her to keep texting and ringing your partner and you should of told your partner that it bothers you and that our of respect for you he should tell her to ... (read in full...)
He cancelled our trip and gave all the money to his ex for new clothes for his child! Do I mean nothing to him?
Q. My boyfriend planned a special weekend away together for us as my birthday present. Then his ex wife called and told him she wanted extra money (besides maintenance already paid and a few extras) to buy clothes for their child. Now this child does ...
A. 9 June 2011: I think your boyfriend was very selfish and inconsiderate to do this! Fair enough you will have to accept that his child will always come first and from what you have said it doesn't seem that the child "needed" new clothes, and if it did i'm sure ... (read in full...)
How can I make this playboy fall for me?
Q. How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...
A. 9 June 2011: This guy is not good for you! please just end it! you will be a bit upset for a week or so but you will feel much better in the long run for ending this! He has basically said he just wants sex from you and nothing else and that he will sleep with ... (read in full...)
How can I get her step-father to accept the relationship?
Q. About a year ago me and my girlfriend got caught smoking weed, and we broke up, anyway i stopped doing drugs a few months after and a year later, we started dating again, but her parents won't let us see each other, her mom started warming up to ...
A. 8 June 2011: Well first of all smoking weed was a very daft idea and i hope you can see now that it wasn't worth it at all! Look at the problems it has caused for you now! (motherly rant over)
Ok firstly i would suggest maybe speaking to your girlfrie... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend kiss another girl!
Q. i saw my bf kiss another girl but he conntinues to kiss and hug he, but im not sure what i should do because i know he loves me but after i saw that im now not so sure. we have been going out for 3 years and he made me wear a promise ring that i ...
A. 8 June 2011: Does he know you saw him kiss this other girl? I'm not being funny but if i saw my boyfriend kiss another girl believe me they would both know about it!
You must be really sweet and soft to have not said anything yet, either that or your just rea... (read in full...)
How can I make this playboy fall for me?
Q. How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...
A. 8 June 2011: Sweety i dont think that this guy is going to fall for you! he has admitted that he is a player and will go with any girl he pleases and by being honest from the beginning he has made things very easy for himself because he can have you and any ... (read in full...)
How do you walk away from someone you are madly in love with?
Q. Hey How can i walk away from a relationship thats broke down and is unfixable or isnt getting any better even though it kills me to think i wont be with him anymore coz i am absolutley madly inlove with him? Any help will be very appretiated Tha...
A. 7 June 2011: This is one of the worst situations to be in because your heart is telling you one thing whilst your head is telling you another! You love him with all your heart but you know deep down that the relationship is beyond repair and that it just wont ... (read in full...)
Husband emotionally empty and I'm incredibly lonely
Q. I have a picture perfect life. I have been married 12 years (together for 20) to a handsome man who makes a good living. We have 2 great kids. We live in a nice house in a nice neighbourhood. I am attractive and have a great social life with lots ...
A. 6 June 2011: This is the easiest question to answer ever...
Talk to your husband!!! You have 20 years and 2 kids behind you so i'm sure you know him well enough by now to know how to broach the subject without hurting his feelings! Just tell him how you have... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't return the favor?
Q. Hey, So basically what is happening is that my girlfriend won't return the favour. I go down on her to please her whenever he asks, but when I ask her to return the goods she says, I don't feel like it, or, when it's dark. I know penises aren't t...
A. 6 June 2011: Make sure your always clean and tidy down there!! a little hair cut can make a huge difference!!!!! Also if your quite large it may be that she just simply cant do it to you! Some guys can "pre-come" (little bits of come like substance throughout ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I don't want to have sex with him! Help!
Q. my boyfriend loves me but he wants to have sex with me and i don't want to, what should i do with my boyfriend? although we can't break up because I LOVE HIM...
A. 6 June 2011: I was in the same situation when i was 15 and it's ok everyone else telling you to leave him if he wont accept that you don't want sex yet, but i can understand that when your feelings are involved and you love someone, you will do anything to keep ... (read in full...)
We dated in 3rd grade but he is not interested in me now, is there a way to get him to like me again?
Q. I like this guy but he says he does not like me. but we 'dated' in 3rd grade so is it posible to get him to like me if so how?...
A. 6 June 2011: If this guy says he doesn't like you it could be for a few reasons. You need to speak to him and find out why he doesn't like you before you decide how to go about things! But ultimately you need to think if this guy is worth changing for? If a ... (read in full...)
How can you be too clingy in a relationship?
Q. Dear all, I was recently dumped for reasons that included in me being "too clingy". I don't know how this is possible as when your in a relationship your meant to be there for each other. Its left many questions in my mind those of which won't b...
A. 6 June 2011: In my opinion being too clingy is when you wont give your other half any "space".
Everybody needs time to themselves! If you were constantly ringing and texting him throughout the day even when you were going to see him the same night then tha... (read in full...)
I'm very insecure about my penis size.
Q. lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?...
A. 30 July 2010: First of all 5-inches is average so your not small, if anything your bigger than average... i dont know what has made you think your small?? :S Maybe your friends are really luck down there and your comparing yourself to something that isnt ... (read in full...)
My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?
Q. what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ...
A. 30 July 2010: You have been a bit vauge here... but i'll give it a go.
Your best friend liking your boyfriend is the worst situation to be in because you may end up having to choose between your guy or your girl :(
Are you sure that your friend likes you... (read in full...)
Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to
Q. ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to ...
A. 30 July 2010: You may think your being really nice but to some people it can come across as forward and for most boys your age when a girl is forward it can freak them out.
Lads are about 4 years behind us girls when it comes to maturing and im sure most of ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex feel like he must rub his life in my face?
Q. Well me and my ex broke up beginning of the year, he dumped saying that he didnt have feelings for me anymore. I accepted it and just ignored him and went on with my life. Then about 2 or so weeks after that he started trying to get me to talk to ...
A. 29 July 2010: Ok first of all your ex seems like he likes to play mind games and his huge display of happiness is probably false and over exagerated. He dumped you and then when he changed his mind and wanted you back you weren't interested, this probably an... (read in full...)
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