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My 22 year old BF cheated on me with his 41 year old neighbour with 5 kids and got her pregnant! Should I stay with him?

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Question - (17 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2007)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid, i was with my boyfriend for 5 months. I'm 21 and he is 22. He cheated on me with my neighbour she is 41 with 5 kids. I dumped him on st. patricks day because he was spending too much time in my neighbours house. I was heart broken to find out about theIr relationship, when she announced she was pregnent with his child.

A few months have gone by and she has moved away. She had a misscarriage and they broke up. My ex moved away with her. I was out with my friends drinking and my ex was there. My friends showed no loyalty to me and were back friends with him! They told me that he always talks about me saying how much he loves me and how he made a mistake with her and stuck with her for the baby.

i still love him, what do you think i should do? should i go back? or leave it in the past?

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (18 May 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntseriously, if he hadn't got her pregnant, he'd still be doing it.

He gave up on you, so give up on him.

If he loved you he wouldn't have left you in the first place.

Hun, for your sake, leave him and get with a real man who'll stand by you no matter what.

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A female reader, candy852 United States +, writes (18 May 2007):

nooooooooooooooooooooooooo leave him if you dont youll regret it

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (18 May 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntLeave it in the past. He got someone else pregnant and abandoned you once already. How much more of a wake up call do you need?

-FBK

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