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writes:I cant get over him... me and my bf broke up and after 1 week later we got back together.. the reason why I broke up cause I didint trust him cause his some words contradicting with each other.. then we talked and told him that I will trust him... after that day, we didint even hang out it has been 23 days not to see each other.. I asked a few times but he always came up with busy with his parents or work.... then Last week he called me once in a day and sometimes texted to me.. but this week he ddint call me and text to me I mean one day he texted to me other day no text... today is friday and he didint call me or text to me but when he texted to me he is still calling me babewhy is he doing? one week he called me and told me he miss me then other week he didint call me and we didint see each other for 23 days... if he doesnt love me, why he doesnt tell me? or if he loves me, why he doesnt offer me to hang out with him like in the past? I feel soo bad and upset... I dont know what to do...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 You don't know what to do because you decided to believe that when he says " I love you " or " I miss you " he seriously means it.
Start challenging this believe . See first if his actions match his words;talk is cheap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys,
he texted to me last sunday and asked me if we are still bf and gf.. and told him yes.. then asked him'' when he is planning to see me? he told me that he was goiing out of city and when he comes back which is next week..
then all of a sudden, I texted to him that '' you should put more effort in this relationship
he: I know, ur right..
after that day he started to text me little bit more and when he tells me he loves me or misses me but no action thats why I dont respond back to his words... dont know what to do
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (24 April 2010):
He is keeping you as his back up plan,or spare tyre. He's obviously involved in other stories, or trying to get involved- but he likes to know that if plan A does not work you'll make a very convenient,readily available plan B. Why does not he tell you that he does not love you ? Precisely because if he tells you he won't be able to use you anymore.
It's up to you to put a stop to this situation and move on.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 April 2010):
 He's no longer interested in you. You have to let him go. It's not right that he's off playing and doing whatever he wants to do (I'm sure he's got someone else) and you're home in your late 20's pining after him.
Life's too short to waste your grief on pathetic losers. Go have some fun! Find some friends and hit the town! You don't need that little weasel in your life.
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