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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): At least it wasn't a thing with a goat... let he find you in bed with a boy and see what happens... WHY do you want her to watch? Do you think that she'll ENJOY this or are you trying to inflict pain on her?Does she know that you're screwing other boys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Invite the guy you fancy over to your house on a day your wife will find you two together on the marital bed. After she discovers both of you rollicking there ask her if she wants a divorce.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 So you're asking her to watch you cheat on her? No wonder she doesn't want to. Why do you even want her to watch? I bet if she knew you were having sex with other men behind her back she wouldn't be very happy. The kind of unhappy that sparks a divorce. It really doesn't matter what gender the other person is, sleeping with someone other than your wife is still cheating. You don't get one of each gender. You get one person. Period. You either need to divorce your wife to be with this man, or stop seeing the man behind her back.
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reader, ~Maureen +, writes (31 January 2010):
For shame,weird man. Go get help for your issues in therapy. Get tested for diseases and tell your wife what you are doing. She doesn't deserve it. She loves you and you are trying to share her with others and have her watch you share yourself??? What the hell is wrong with you?!
You know you are doing wrong.
~Maureen
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reader, xanthic +, writes (30 January 2010):
 Being bi is never an excuse to cheat on your wife. It doesn't matter what their gender is, it's cheating and it's a disgusting thing to do to someone that loves you and trusts you. Get over it, you're married and she's already made it clear she's uncomfortable with the idea.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (30 January 2010):
 If she says no, she means no. You can't force her to do something you're not comfortable with. If you keep having these affairs, why don't you leave her? You're obviously not happy with just her and want to have open relationships. Stop cheating on your wife and find something better to do with your time that suits you more.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 January 2010):
 When you married her, did you promise that you would only have sex with her?
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