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I think our teacher is putting off weird vibes

Q.   Let me start by saying I feel a little awkward talking about this, but I want some advice/answers to the problem I've been having involving one of my teachers. You could say he's one of the more fun, "popular" teachers in my school; he likes...

A.   6 February 2010: The man may harbor some inappropriate thoughts...who knows. Although the first post has some valid points to consider. If he is "noticing" you unduly, then be sure ingore him at all costs. Don't allow his mind to think you are interested.If you ... (read in full...)

Why would my so called best friend do this to me??

Q.   my best Friend said we should get really drunk and sleep with Random stranger when we go on holiday. i said am not going to get drunk and sleep with Random strangers THX. she called me a boring.Kan.k:( i took off our marriage on face book.. ...

A.   6 February 2010: Your BFF is a malignant narcissist. She's dangerous. Dump her immediately. Get a new friend. God Bless.... (read in full...)

It creeps me out that he keeps trying things when he thinks I'm asleep!

Q.   I really don't know where to begin but my boyfriend does things to me in my sleep, for example last night he wrapped my hair around his penis and started masterbating. He also puts his hand down my pj's and feels around but I don't let him achieve ...

A.   6 February 2010: Why are you sleeping with a man who you are not married to? He is using you and so he figures that you are an object, quite like a plastic doll. Or he has a rape fantasy (which is why he waits for your sleep so you cannot give consent which may mean ... (read in full...)

He's letting our relationship slide because he has to have at least 6 hours of gaming a day

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years. he has recently got back into n online game, world of warcraft. he plays non stop all day - i mean wake up at 8am to play and play till 12am, if i am at his house he will play from around...

A.   6 February 2010: WOW and games of the occultish nature may open one up to a demonic obsession. Notice, I did not use the word possession. Obsession is a case where a person gives satan an opening in their life. Satanic influence ensues and the personality is ... (read in full...)

The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!

Q.   Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the on...

A.   6 February 2010: Definitely, break up with him asap. Yes, his heart will be broken, but it will be mended well when he moves on to a motherly sort. I can't help but wonder about your feelings regarding children. You would NOT BELIEVE how happy I am to hear of ... (read in full...)

I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!

Q.   So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to ...

A.   6 February 2010: That is wonderful to hear. Now act on it. Allow yourself to exhibit self-control and be her protector, not her ruination. God Bless!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

Q.   im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

A.   6 February 2010: There you have it-by popular consensus. The guy is an evil loser. You already knew that. You just needed confirmation. Let us know if you are strong enough to save yourself and your baby. Pray for strength if you're not.... (read in full...)

I'm married, will be a father in a month, but can't control my feelings for the receptionist at the gym.

Q.   Hi Everyone, I am a new member on this site. I am married now for 8 months almost and we will have a baby soon. We dated for only around 1.5 years before we decided to get married. I go to this gym everyday and have started liking a girl at th...

A.   6 February 2010: Dear Grown Man, Sorry to blow it for you, but you are ALREADY a FATHER. Your baby already exists. As a grown man, you have the ability to control yourself. Do so now. Your wife and your baby deserve all your love and attention. Love is a d... (read in full...)

I so much WANT to believe in God!

Q.   Hello there! Im going thru some rough patches.... I really feel I want to believe in God, and build faith. But I'm not sure how to. Those who believe... do they have answered prayers, or some sort of a sign, what proves that someone really listens? ...

A.   4 February 2010: I assure you God exists. You are His child and you are wonderfully made. God does gives signs. He wants you to be humble when you approach Him as He "resists the proud". The 'proud' are people who think they are gods and make up their own rules in ... (read in full...)

I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?

Q.   How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...

A.   31 January 2010: Hi, Sorry to hear about your problem. My first instinct is to tell you to stop using PORN. Do you? Sorry if I'm assuming unfairly...but if you are, porn is the number 1 destroyer of a man's function. When a man watches porn and ummm...you know... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

Q.   im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

A.   31 January 2010: All the posters are correct dear girl. When a man is able to punch the person he claims to love, he has shown himself to be a liar. What kind of man hits women? A loser who will never to able to control his base nature. He has a baby with another ... (read in full...)

I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!

Q.   So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to ...

A.   31 January 2010: I know you are young...and probably have no idea what I am referring too. I don't mean to allude to some kind of force on your part. What I mean about the whore comment is that she is not your wife. You have no real commitment. I believe you about ... (read in full...)

Married and bi. I want my wife to watch me have m2m relations, how can I convince her?

Q.   Hey hi im a married male and im bi and i want her to watch me have sex with anouther guy but she says no any ideas how to get her to say yes or should i keep just having m2m sex behind her back?...

A.   31 January 2010: For shame,weird man. Go get help for your issues in therapy. Get tested for diseases and tell your wife what you are doing. She doesn't deserve it. She loves you and you are trying to share her with others and have her watch you share yourself??? ... (read in full...)

Does he regret dumping me now Ihave a modelling contract, or does he really hate me?

Q.   I've just been dumped by a Pakistani boy who I've been with on and off for about a year. He's tried to dump me a few times before, but he'd always come back to me. Anyway he told me he'd met someone else and he wanted to be with her, so he dum...

A.   31 January 2010: Wow! After getting a text like that, you should feel VERY blessed that you didn't end up with that loser. Shake it off honey and go on with your fabulous life! Word to the Wise: Sometimes men react badly when women give them what they want too... (read in full...)

I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!

Q.   So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to ...

A.   30 January 2010: Stop playing house! You are not treating your girlfriend as a special person...you are treating her like a whore and she is becoming one. If you really cared about her, you wouldn't be doing things to hurt her like skipping school with her and ... (read in full...)

Feeling sad about my experiences in high school! Is this a precedent for the rest of my life?

Q.   This is pretty shallow compared to a lot of people's problems, and all the chaos in the world, but it really bugs me after all these years. When I was in high school, I never went to prom. It's not a big deal, but it makes me a little sad becau...

A.   30 January 2010: Dearheart, Being cheated out of prom and a "quince" are sad and most girls can understand the feeling of loss you experience. I think they act as a metaphor for the loss of your self-esteem. All that moving around has left you with shaken conf... (read in full...)

Pregnant at seventeen and need advice on how to get my boyfriend to treat me better!

Q.   hi my name is chantelle and i'm 17 years old and pregnant. i need help and advice because i cant go through this alone, and my boyfriend is making things worse. my question is, what kind of talk can i have with my boyfriend to make him smarten up ...

A.   30 January 2010: Chantelle! Congratulations on your baby! It probably wasn't an expected baby, but trust me, God knows what He was doing. Your boyfriend is probably freaking out inside that he has gotten you pregnant. He is most likely freaking on the i... (read in full...)

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