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Male opinion needed!

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Question - (27 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *oveitlongtime writes:

I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that.

One day I came home from school and I saw a car parked outside his house not thinking anything of it, went inside, got ready for the gym, and about 45 minutes later, so Z and X step into the car and sped off together.

Angered , by this considering she happens to hang out with him right after I tell her how I feel, I text her lying and go, "hey did you get my text from last night?"

She goes, 'no I didn't, so I carry on the story and re send it """". Then I go, 'so what are you doing tonite?', and she made it clear to state that she's hung out with Z.

I said what did you do, and she goes well we had sex a couple of times.

Infuriated I didn't answer, and the night goes by and I wake up the next morning, with a text on my phone from her, saying to me, 'I didn't sleep with Z, the joke was mean and cruel and I'm sorry'

I didn't answer, and following I got three texts from Z stating 'don't be mad at X, because it was my idea, on the brighter side everyone thinks I'm a slut now', and I said to him, 'well they didn't hear anything from me'

Later I felt bad so I sent a message saying sorry, and I said just don't sketch me out again, and he said he did none of the sketching, but then earlier he told me it was his idea...

i spoke to X later that night, and she told me it was all his idea, to tell me that they had a threesome, why the sudden being mean to me? Did they really have sex? Are they lying to me? Was this a jealousy stunt?!?!?!

Does he like me did he try to make me jealous, or is this his way of saying hey I'm not interested.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

your not even dating and hes already playing games with you, that should tell you exactly what kind of guy he is...find yourself a better guy, and forget about this idiot.

and that girl doesnt sound like a good friend at all, id keep my eyes open around her and watch what you tell her.

....good luck!!

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