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writes:HiMy bf broke up with me a week before. We are in LDR now since i need to travel abroad for my work. I might be returning back after 2-3 months. When he broke up, i was depressed so much i cried all over him and tried to reach him. He talked to me few times and said i need to move on and we can be friends. When i tried to reach him again, he switched off his phone. I didnt call him or text him after that (for 4 days). I really love him a lot, i am nuts about him. He was also in love with me and i am not sure why he broke up suddenly. He said he needed space. We were best friends before we started dating.How can i get him back? Please someone help me, i really like him so much. We bring out the best in each other. Please someone help me so i can get him back.
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reader, audrey21  +, writes (11 November 2010):
This sounds exactly the same as what i have been through Ldr he wanted to take a break after 3 weeks he hadnt changed his mind we chatted for another week cuz i couldnt leave him alone now he has completly shut me out. So the only advice i can give u which i so badly regret not doing is u must completley cut all contact give him the space; there is a chance he will try and get back in contact. If he doesnt then u must let go cuz u will only ending up hurting urself more. The distance w my ex ruined it if he was closer we would be together! In the mean time concentrate on u! Work, friends, go out dance buy urself new shoes !!!! Do anything to keep ur mind off him and if u never hear from him then he was never worth it!!! Good luck keep ur head up!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Did he break up with you before you started to travel for work? If so then the reason he broke up with you is because of the distance. Not everyone can handle a LDR. There's no absolute guarantee on getting him back, I think you're still hanging on because you didn't closure. As silly as it sounds give him the space he wants, if you try to call him then you look clingy which will only push him away even further. However, he said it was over and he told you to move on. It could very well be said and done..Give him 2 weeks of no contact and the space he wants. Then try to contact him again, if he ignores your call then it's finished. Proceed to do as he said and move on with your life. If he loved you then you don't dump the one you love. I don't recommend a friendship anytime soon either, maybe in the near future when you're past this.
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