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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am having big problems about my fat fetish. I am a gay male who fairly round and I don't want to get any bigger. Truth is, I have a fetish for fat men; curves, love handles and everything else. My fetish has often led me to put on weight as I find it 'sexy' in a sense. Although I find fat men attractive, I prefer slim males too. I really want to get rid of my fetish as it may take over my life. It's not healthy to be thinking the way I do, soon I will end up becoming obese and I don't want that to happen. Any suggestions to get rid of this? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Are you physically attracted to yourself/turn yourself on? Most people aren't attracted to themselves and want a partner that they are attracted to. You need to separate what is good for YOU, and what you find ATTRACTIVE. They are two different things.
And it is possible to have a few extra pounds and still be healthy. Stay in shape yourself, but continue to love chubbier males. That's not unhealthy to have a fetish or preference. What is unhealthy is becoming obese, and supporting a partner in becoming obese. Having the attraction is perfectly fine no matter what, but you can't allow it to take over your life, body and health. Just be realistic about that fact, and you can still keep your fetish.
Watch what you eat, and separate what is attractive from what is healthy! You are not a mentally challenged person, you know the difference, and you can control it.
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