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Should I take a risk and talk to my ex, or wait to see what happens when I visit his sister?

Q.   It's been 4 months since my ex and I broke up....the same week we broke up he slept with someone, but didn't tell me... I figured it out! We didnt talk for a month then he got in contact, admitting what he had done and saying how he regretted ...

A.   30 January 2011: Thank you to all 3 of you for your answers! His sister is a friend, not her problem what he did! And we both decided to break up I didnt get dumped it was more my fault, but I thought we would work it out and didn't think he would sleep with ... (read in full...)

I don't know if this break up is permanent?

Q.   I had the perfect relationship with a great guy who I could see myself with long term as we had the same goals and wants out of life and a relationship as well as several things in common, but it all fell apart. We used to be so happy together both ...

A.   11 November 2010: Could not agree with u more i am going through the same thing so similar it freaked me out reading this. My ex has pulled away so NO contact the person who wrote before me is so right!... (read in full...)

LDR break up!

Q.   Hi My bf broke up with me a week before. We are in LDR now since i need to travel abroad for my work. I might be returning back after 2-3 months. When he broke up, i was depressed so much i cried all over him and tried to reach him. He talke...

A.   11 November 2010: This sounds exactly the same as what i have been through Ldr he wanted to take a break after 3 weeks he hadnt changed his mind we chatted for another week cuz i couldnt leave him alone now he has completly shut me out. So the only advice i can give ... (read in full...)

Why did my ex say cruel things to hurt me, or was it to get me to leave him alone?

Q.   I will try to not make this too long...my boyfriend told me two months ago that he needed a break after only 4 months it was long distance but not impossible to give it a chance! We had just spent a month together he came with me to another contry ...

A.   10 November 2010: Yep i am definatly not going to bother him again and can i just add that this girl does live double the distance frm me but he met her on his holiday!... (read in full...)

How can I avoid dwelling on "what ifs"?

Q.   Hey, I'd appreciate your comments/insight into the emotions I've been feeling lately about my new bf of 2 months, and some advice on how to make myself less worried, please. Everything is going great, I think he's lovely, and he's told me he'...

A.   21 October 2010: It doesnt sound stupid at all. We all have past relationships and hearbreaks that we will always remember you will never really forget them. But its happened and its the past, and now is your chance to fall in love with someone again. You dont know ... (read in full...)

I blocked my b/f on facebook, will he be upset about it?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace ...

A.   12 October 2010: i am going through the same thing as you, my boyfriend wanted a break a week ago so out of anger and because i didnt want to be stalking him i blocked him on fb, my email, and his number, it only took a few days for him to be calling upset about it. ... (read in full...)

Is there any hope? He wants space!

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend since may, we met hit it off right away and saw each other everyday. only 4 weeks after we met he had to move home to where his family was which is about 3 hours total on a train. i left the decision up to him about ...

A.   12 October 2010: hey thank you for both of your answers those really helped. I have recently been speaking to him and it isnt going anywhere last night we hung up and decided once again we will not talk. he said he will contact me. im not sure if he will but im NOT ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a break but it is killing me. Is this the end of the relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend of three and a half years decided that he needed to "take a break from the relationship". We still talk on a daily basis. He as even came to my house for us to see each other. He's been at my house three times this past week. When we ...

A.   7 October 2010: reading some of these stories automatically makes me feel so much better. heres my little story... when i was 16/17/18 i dated and fell in love with my first love he was a few years older than me and the sweetest guy ever...while we were together... (read in full...)

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