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female
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30-35,
*uffy
writes:Hey guys.I have a little problem.I can be a very jealous person.In my past,the jealousy ruined everything for my relationships.I'm talking to a new guy now and he makes me so happy.We aren't together because we want to get to know each other more and everything so far is going great.The only problem is that I still have those jealousy problems.I freaked out the other day because me and my friends were supposed to hang out with him and he wasn't texting us back.I,as usual,got the worst thoughts.I got mad because I thought he was hanging out with these other girls that we go to school with.Come to find out,he was riding.So I got jealous over nothing.I hate the feelings I get like that.It's so uncontrolable.It's an anxious but angry but sad feeling.I'm scared my jealousy will get the best of me and ruin everything again.He's friends with girls that are prettier than me and I think that's why I get jealous.How do I keep my jealousy from showing?Please help me.Love and kisses,Muffy33
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reader, raiders +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Muffy being jealous is normal but there is a difference in the type of jealousy that you have. The jealousy that you have is because you want control, you want control of what he stares at, on what he wears, to whom he can to talk to because if he gets a little attention you go in a jealous rage. Try to control yourself this is for your own good. No one wants to be in a hostile environment and you will push many guys away with this behavior. Always remember you can't build a relationship if you can not trust the person you are with.
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