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writes:Help! I split up with my partner last week. We'd been together nearly 5 years - I'd asked for advice on this site and the help I got was great. It made me strong enough to end the relationship that had run its course. I no longer felt that 'chemistry' between us and could not see a long term future for us. We had also not been getting on well over the last few months and split before Christmas but tried again in the New Year. He has now texted me today to see if we can meet up for an hour tomorrow so that he can get to the bottom of why we can't get on. I've said all I need to say. I've spent all week clearing my head. What if he is hoping to try again? How many times can anyone keep 'giving it another go'? Should I see him and see what he has to say? Help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Sunshine. Thanks for your help in this. You answered my question yesterday when I said I didn't know how I should be feeling after the split and you said I was a strong person and probably felt relieved. Thanks for your advice now. I know it has run its course and if we were to 'give it another go' it would be because it was the easy option. I've spent a week getting my mind straight and like you say, don't want it messing up again. Time to move on...thanks.
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reader, sunshine99 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 If it didn't work a first or second time, it will definately not work at all in the futuret . My ex and I kept breaking up and getting back together and it never worked out in the end! Maybe you shouldn't meet him, if you do your head will be even more messed up. Life is too short to waste. There is no point wasting your time here. Give him a call and be straight so he knows where he stands and tell him it's time to move on. Good Luck
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