A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey guys...i hope everyone is doing fine..i want to ask if a vasectomy can really be reversed? Like my bf had one and he doesnt have any kids..im just qurious if we will ever have our own one day if he says he is ready? I googled but im not sure...any help? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, YouWish  +, writes (14 March 2012):
 A vasectomy can be reversed. However, if you're making decisions about your boyfriend, you must not bank on him changing his mind.
If he is childless and had a vasectomy in order to remain childless, then chances are that he made a life decision. If you want a future with him, you must register the fact that it will be a childless future. Being with someone who doesn't want kids and hope they change their mind is a dangerous thing to bank on.
A guy who's so sure about being childless that he had a vasectomy to ensure it will not change his mind.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah thanks.....thats what i thot...possibly can and depends on how long etc....i appreciate your answers guys ..you are the best
...............................
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 March 2012):
 every tried to stitch two pieces of overcooked spaghetti together when they are a smidgen too short?
that's about how hard it is to do a vasectomy reversal....
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 March 2012):
 It really depends on several things, 1. how it was done and how long ago.
It seems a rather drastic surgery to have done, if you think you might change your mind in the future. Do you know why he chose to have it done?
I think you two need to have a long talk and figure out if kids/no kids is a deal-breaker or not. IF you want kids, he may not be the one.
This is something you two need to discuss if you plan on getting married. It's not a subject you can go "maybe he will change his mind". Either he wants kids or not.
...............................
A
female
reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (14 March 2012):
 It is possible to reverse some yes but not all, it would all depend on when he had it and how it was done.
...............................
A
female
reader, person12345 +, writes (14 March 2012):
 Sort of, but it's not a sure thing. If he thinks he might want kids, he needs to get it reversed as soon as he can. The longer out from the operation it is, the less likely it is that it can be successfully reversed.
...............................
|
