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writes:I met a really nice guy a couple of weeks ago and I really like him. We met for a coffee a few times before he moved a 3 hour drive away for work and we haven't really been in contact since. He broke up with girlfriend just before Christmas and now I think they may be back together but I'm not sure.Her birthday was during the week and she tagged him in a post on facebook saying they went to a concert to celebrate and one of her friends went with them. So thats why I think it might be back on. I really like him but I don't want to call him if they are back together. What do you think? Are they back together or are they still just good friends?
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 They could be back together...Or they might just be friends.
Flip a coin.
Heads, they're back together, tails, they're friends. Who knows?
Whether they are friends or more is irrelevant. What is relevant is that since he moved away neither of you has contacted the other. Doesn't this tell you something?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Don't call him, let him call you. But I don't think I'd waste anymore time dwelling on the subject, you only had coffee a few times.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (12 March 2012):
 No one here will be able to tell you whether or not they are back together. If you want to know, you'll have to do the adult thing and ask! Frankly, if you haven't been in contact with him since he moved away, I strongly doubt he'll want to pursue anything with you. No contact = no interest. If I were you, I'd chalk this up as a few good dates and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): I'd say trust your gut and move on to someone who knows what he wants and is totally into you. 100%. Its not this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): I've found that there is no point beating around the bush, just be upfront about it. Ask him out for coffee again to catch up. Ask him how his birthday was, especially. If he is back with his girlfriend, he will probably mention it. Its a fine line but the first step is just to see him again, really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): You met for coffee three times (those aren't official dates) and now he lives three hours away...never contacted you after that and has his ex lurking around. There is no indication he is interested in you AT ALL so why do you care? I don't see how you are involved in his life really at all or that he's asking you to be!
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