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writes:im not really worried about what im going to share but i just want some answers lol :) im only 13 and im going to be honest about it, so already any readers will be thinking shes just a kid it dosent matter but i feel im mature enough for a relationship. my boyfriend is 15 so i know he is closer to bein sexually active than i am and he thinks about sex more than i do. whenever we get into the conversation about us, example.. telling me he loves me, telling me im pretty, talking about masterbation anything like that. i get a tight feeling down below and its so weird its a shock to me that the words are coming out of his mouth i dont know why. do any of you other girls get this? when he talks about things to your face that would usually be kept for texting? we are both more open with each other now, as it has been 4 months. i like this openess.
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (13 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the question thaank youu :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): That is totally normal! But please think twice or a hundred times before you act on your feelings! Wait wait wait wait wait wait!!!!!! i cannot tell you that enough. I dont liek to live in regret but i lost my virginity to a guy who dumped me on my birthday a few weeks later. a few months later i found the love of my life and have been with him for 6 years! Wait wait wait wait!!!!! you are SO young! wait! plenty more guys will be around and if this is the guy that sticks around! then great but let him stick around a while first! you are 13 !!!! WAIT!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): yeah, everything you're going through is normal, everything is right on schedule hormone-wise, lol... but please don't make the classic teenage mistake of thinking that the feelings you get down there means you're ready for true love... no matter what movies and pop music tells you, remember that soulmates are made, not found. It takes going through ups and downs in the rough, real world together, for a good long time... to know whether or not you got a soulmate - someone that can hang in there with you, and grow together with you - or a lemon. Even if you think you're ready for a relationship, i hardly think a 15 year old teenage boy is ready. You can take the relationship plunge if you want, but at your age better to play the field, if you don't want your heartbroken. On the other hand, getting your heart broken is an experience that can come in handy to prepare you for adult life later on when you are ready for truly serious relationship.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (12 October 2010):
 Yes, it's normal. You body is reacting to the stimuli your brain is getting from talking about these things. It's all part of growing up. Hormones are weird :)
However, don't let it confuse you into thinking that because you FEEL excited, that you have to act on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): hii...
hunny, i can assure you that you are totally, completely, one-hundred percent normal. when you get to the age that you are, there's this wonderful little thing called puberty that starts to make its presence known, and this kind of thing is just a part of it. whether you're texting or on the phone or face-to-face to a guy you are interested in (or, sometimes, even just thinking about certain things is enough to do the trick, as i'm sure you will learn at some point in the future), it's completely normal for you to "get a tight feeling down below." it happens to the best of us. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 You are just going through puberty and you will experience things like this, its just your bodys natural reactions its completely normal.
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