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writes:I get to the part where I feel like I have to pee but can't go past that is it still an orgasm or no cause I don't get past that part?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): Typically for me when I get the urge to pee I need to just relax and then I squirt. I have never had an orgasm from it but I have squirted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2012): It should feel like a sudden rush of pulsating feelings down there which feels better than anything up til then. Then after a few seconds of this the rush quickly fades and you then feel very drowsy and sleepy making you want to slump over and not move for awhile or even fall asleep (this is due to hormones and other chemicals released in your body during orgasmw, its not due to being tired but literally as if you were hit with a sedation drug because basically you were) . Of course the drowsiness can be overridden like if you want to continue with your partner or if you're pressed for time and have to get dressed immediately. But if you just are relaxed you will feel drowsy or sleepy right after an orgasm. This is called the refractory phase which is what immediately follows an orgasm. No orgasm means no refractory phase and you continue to feel aroused and agitated or slowly dialing down the arousal rather than sudden release.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): It's a sign that the orgasm is close. You have to concentrate and go with the flow. Remember that the females need to LEARN to orgasm.
OR, your man's penis is curvy and pointing up. This type of penis stimulates the G-spot (which is attached to the bladder) and makes you feel you need to pee.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): I think there are 2 types of orgasms. For me, I generally have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation. It feels like vag muscles tensing up and then pleasure with a release. it kind of builds up and then releases. The other orgasm is with the g spot. But I don't think its associated with needing to pee. It is close to the bladder though the g spot...i may be wrong but maybe thats why you feel that way. The feeling of needing to pee, is it accompanied by a pleasurable feeling? have you ever just tried to release and see what happens? some people say that that feeling of needing to pee is the female ejaculation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 November 2012):
 I've never had the peeing feeling when I have an orgasm.
rhythmic throbbing that you can't control.... now that's an orgasm.
Remember that no matter what PEOPLE say, everyone's orgasm is going to be different for them.... so maybe you never get past that feeling of needing to pee...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): Okay but what if I have a throbbing feeling down there too when I stop and I can't breath..but people say you have to get past that part you feel like peeing to get the orgasm
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 November 2012):
I agree with Cindy... if you have to ask you didn't have one.
I've had the have to pee feeling it does NOT accompany my orgasms.
When I was YOUNG (single digit age) I called the orgasms I had from the running water in the tub "the tickle"
My clitoris (not that I knew that's what it was then) was so tender and sensitive after I could not bear to be touched for a few minutes...
and it's really more of an all over body tensing then spasming in the genital region then just a lovely warm feeling of calm... at least for me...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 November 2012):
 Feeling like you have to pee is sometimes a feeling women get in the very early stages of G spot stimulation (like if you're stimulating yourself internally). But no an orgasm feels like a bunch of involuntary muscle contractions along with a feeling of relief.
If you're stimulating yourself on the inside and it's just making you feel like you have to pee, try stimulating yourself on the outside (your clitoris).
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reader, VenusFlowerBasket  +, writes (23 November 2012):
If your feeling the need to pee then you're probably not relaxed enough and unlikely to orgasm if your not relaxed and enjoying yourself.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (23 November 2012):
Hi dear,
Well, sometimes when I feel like I have to pee that means I'm about to squirt. Squirting is not peeing, but there's some watery liquid pouring out and I'll have an orgasm with it. It was pretty scary for me to go "past that" for the first time and to let go because I was afraid I would piss myself, which I didn't. But the sheets were wet after that :)
Since I am not in your body I can't tell you exactly what it is that you're experiencing, so this is just a guess. And I agree with Cindy, if you have an orgasm you'll know.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 November 2012):
 Rule of thumb is, if you have to ask yourself, was it an orgasm or not... then it's not :), the orgasmic sensation is quite unmistakable, when it happens you know it.
Anyway I'd think you haven't got an orgasm yet. It's very difficult to decide about other people's orgasms,:) but the "classic " definition is a series, or more series, of rapid muscular contractions, which you don't mention.
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