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writes:Met a woman back in Feb. and we dated until the end of June. We live in different states and the distance got to be too much. We decided to not date and then I got a job which I will be moving to her area. The job is a promotion and by no means was it a job to move closer to her. We talk two and three times a day and I went there a few weeks ago and the sparks flew again, but she said she just can't deal with this roller coaster ride and when I get there if things work out then they will, but right now we needed to be just friends. However, the conversations still continue. A week later she told me she had joined a dating site and was just trying to meet friends. Most of her friends were now married and she didn't like the drama of having female friends. She later said she quit looking because there was no one on there that was ideal. She said she feels like she could be in love with me, but that she just doesn't know until we had more time together. She said I do consider myself single and availabe, but I have never been one just to go on a date to just date. Yes, I am in love with her and I hope things can work out. HOWEVER, today she threw me for a loop. Back in June, I found out that a friend of mine from college was living in her town and we had discussed him before and I told her what success he always had with the ladies and I'm sure he was having fun in a large city. She asked why he was so successful with the women and I joked and said he is a good person and let's just say he is blessed. He and I had talked some during that time and we had exchanged pictures to see how each other had changed. I sent him a picture of me and her and he had commented about how hot she is. I told her that and said you see how beautiful you are. Anyway, today, we were talking about her roommate and she said why don't you set your friend up with her and I said she is too young for him and she then said why don't you set me up with him. I got speechless, and then said oh and not ever have a chance with you and she said why do you put yourself down, I may not even like him. I just left it alone and then I thought is she just trying to make me jealous or is she serious. Should I leave it alone and drop the subject or should I call her bluff and bring it back up and say...you want me give him your number??? Therefore, I would know what to do. What do you think she meant by that or what is she thinking. And why does she still call and call me honey and send little XO text messages???
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): I look at the date of your posting and don't know if you still need an answer, but as for the question you asked. I would give her the number, and see what happens. If she is untrustworthy better you know about it now and not waste to much time and effort with her on relationship.
"To behave with dignity is nothing more than to allow others freely to be themselves" (quoted by Sol Chaneles).
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