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writes:Hey. So I'm back again because I got some good advice the last 2 times I posted on here so I'm hoping for more.So as I first said I'm a African American age 19. In one of my college classes, one of my college classes, there's a girl who on the first day sat at a table diagonally behind me. I've noticed her glance at me from the corner of my eye but neither of us made an attempt to talk to one another even after class. But on the next day of that class, she sits right next to me and has been sitting there since. We've made small conversation, nothing that I don't would reveal much about ourselves. We still glance at each other at points and sometimes when she's laughing at one of her friends she'd lean against me. On a group project when we were splitting up and she was going to work with her friends I noticed her seem kinda disappointed when another group of people asked me to join them (least I think I did). And even after we grouped up we'd still glance at each other. I honestly don't know whether or not she's like interested in me or maybe I'm just crazy and she's not even looking at me like that or we just so happen to look over at the same time. And maybe she just moved up so she could see better. But I'm coming here for advice on what you all think because even if she's not interested in me like that I'd still like to get to know her more and maybe ask her out just don't know what to say or even how to ask if she'd like to hang out sometime. So I'm asking for 2 things 1: do you think she's interested in me or not? 2: how do I approach her? Thanks in advance and hoping I get positive feedback from you all Reply to this Question
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reader, llifton +, writes (5 September 2016):
 1. Yes she is interested. She is making it as obvious as possible for you. No doubt.
2. Just get to chatting casually and ask her to study with you sometime. Or just go for the kill and ask her if she would like to hang out outside of school. You can just get her talking and then casually mention that you two should hang out without coming on too strong.
You got this! I'd be shocked if she turned you down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2016): HiFrom what you write, yes it sounds as if she likes you. I don't think a woman would lean into a man and create physical contact by doing so, if she didn't like you. Also, glancing at each other is a sign I think. I bet you don't glance at others, cos you're not interested in the others and the same goes for her. When a man and I were interested in each other, we did a lot of glancing :-) He would hold my gaze, which was lovely and it does create a bond. Prolonged eye contact raises emotion between two people and studies have shown that prolonged eye contact between two strangers, leads to feelings of interest and attraction.Keep chatting and lead the conversation to pastimes and hobbies, then if you see an opening to suggest going somewhere together, go for it. That way, it won't be too obvious if she declines, but it sounds to me as if she's interested. Good luck
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (4 September 2016):
 We have no idea if she is interested in you. You are the person on the spot. What do you think? What do your friends think? Have you asked them? Have you asked her friends?
Come on. We don't have long distance antenna.
Secondly what is stopping you from asking her for a cup of coffee or a pizza? Is it just fear of rejection? Face that fear. What's the worst that can happen? She says 'No thanks'? You can survive that.
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