A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, is she dating me or is she 'being polite'? I've recently dated a girl from my highschool and she seems to be the nice person I thought she'd be. The reason why I didn't know much about her in the first place is because we are in the same school but all her classes are different then mine and we have 0 free periods together. At first she was just eye candy, but when I coincidentally met her at a bookstore and found out she had the same passion for reading as I, I was attracted. After the bookstore I left for home on a bus and it turned out she was there, taking the same bus as I and we talked till I reached my stop.After this coincidential event I was entranced and have not been able to remove her from my thoughts. So, because I didn't have a chance to talk to her in person at school I contacted her over facebook and managed to get a phone number out of her. I asked her out and she said yes, but she also honestly told me that she'd been dating another guy, just not long enough to decide whether he was going to be her boyfriend or not. Downheartened, I decided I'd rather end the situation on a good note so I followed through with the plan to go to the movies with her. We had a great time and even hung out longer then I expected, having dinner together and I even had a chance to show her around my place after that(she having asked to see my pool, private humor). When she left she texted me saying that she had a good time and I responded with all due gratitude. Three days have passed since that night and I still can't stop thinking about her. The problem is, that I can't tell if she was being polite to go on a first date with me and then just drift away after that or if she wanted to give me a chance and 'compare' me to to this other guy. I'm considering on asking her out again for a second date, but I want to be sure that I'm not forcing her into a charade and that I am actually dating her. So, what do you think? Is she interested or is she polite?
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