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writes:So I've been hanging out lately with a lady from my job and I needed some insight as in what is exactly going on. First off I'm lesbian, but I haven't made this known to lady I been hanging out with. About 2 weeks ago I took her out with me for a meal, n she returned the favor by bringing lunch to my job couple days later. This past Saturday I took her out for dinner and a movie and during the movie she was slouched down arms touching mines and periodically leaning her head on my shoulders. That night I took her back home n she told me to call her once I make it home. It was 1am when I dropped her off, n I got home n called her at 130am we ended up staying on the phone til after 4am. What's strange is the phone conversation we shared. She was really being sexually explicit talking about her past male lover n how great that one night was. She then went on to tell me about a girl on girl encounter she had, she spoke about it nervously as if unsure if I'm into women (she doesn't know my sexual orientation). So she went on to say she did it cause she was drunk and bc she was kidding around. I only listened, never commented. She then says lesbian sex is more pleasurable. She said its okay for woman to have sex with other women so long as they return home to their men. That statement concerned me, but I said nothing. So we ended the conversation n called it a night. The next day she kept texting me about how horny for a vibrator she is, and how she miss the pass out orgasms. Yesterday we exchanged pixs....nonsexual in nature. Today she showed up at my job being such a flirt....she made a comment about being a security guard and I responded u can cuff me I got some cuff keys in my car, n she said yeah I'll handcuffs u with ur hands behind ur back with blindfolds on and rubbed down in baby oil. Like out of no where and at my job she says that...I'm wondering if she wants me in a only sexual way or is she trying to get with me in a full relationship. What does it seems she wants from me a cool friendship, a sex only relationship or a full on love-sex relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Girl, she so wants to get into your pants it's not funny...
The next move is yours. Shut it down, or take it on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): i think she is just after you for sex -- sad, but thats how she sounded...if she wanted a cool relationship with you she could have at least for starters, made you feel special..
but who knows...its your call if you wanna indulge... im lesbian too but i dont go for just sex...goodluck :)
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reader, hotttmess +, writes (7 September 2011):
 okay, I honestly think that she is just sending some mixed signals here. First off, you need to find out her orientation because to me it sounds like she is bi. As far as the sexual actions and comments towards you I think that shes experimenting to see how you'll take it so she can figure out your orientation. She either 1) doesn't want to be vulnerable incase you're not interested or not a lesbian or 2)really just wants a sexual experience with you. Besides that scenario I feel like the comment about everything being okaay as long as you go back to the man can be a reality for her and maybe that was her way of saying what she wants from you.
You could keep analyzing the situation and coming up with your conclusions, but I think your best bet is to honestly just talk to her about it, don't be afraid to ask her exactly whats on your mind!
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