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51-59,
*irov
writes:ok so ive been dating this woman for a month in a half and all of the sudden she tells me this guy she used to have sex with {just a FWB relationship} keeps texting her and asking to have a threesome..so was she really wanting to do this and we would she just out of the blue say this to me? or was she really wanting to do this and just feeling me out as to if i wanted to do it also.....also i found out later that this was a guy that was married that she was being his mistress for whenever he wanted some fun on the side...my intuition tells me she wanted this to happen...what do you people think???? why else would she say this to me as i thought we were really building a real relationship????
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 You thought you were building a relationship but does she know this? Maybe you need to be as curt as she is and come right out of the blue and say it.
"Are you and I a real thing, do you want this RS to go anywhere special, or are we a Me a You and a Him?"
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (12 May 2011):
 This woman definitely doesn't hide anything. She does need to develop sensitivity though. Was the threesome for two women one man or two men one woman? In your post although you said you thought you were having a real relationship, you didn't say you would detest the idea of casual sex though. You know what, when women talk and they don't get to the point (I know sometimes I am like that). Don't guess, don't try to read her mind. Just acknowledge that's what you heard as a statement and that's it. Maybe she wants you to trigger your protective instinct. "Hey, this guy is always bugging me, I want you to react and try to protect me from him." or something like that. I have not known any friends who like the idea of two men one woman threesome. Two women one man is already rare enough.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 May 2011):
My intuition is telling me this is a woman you can't trust. At all. My intuition is telling me to tell you to make a run for it. Now.
And month and a half in and some FWB is suddenly asking for a threesome? That sounds planned to me.
The guy's married? That says a lot about her if she was having an affair with him.
Seriously - time to run.
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