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female
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anonymous
writes:IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it? Like friday night in are local pub he was there with his new girlfriend and i was there with some mates, the pub was packed due to a party and i hardley saw him due to the fact of it being busy and him with his new partner who doesnt like me, but when i said on saturday that i hardly saw him he said, oh i saw you i saw you many times and was going on about when he saw me(i call it watching me)i then went on about how i got this guys number he said you should be carefull as you dont no the background of this gut(i didnt no his when i started seeing him)And recently ive been thinking he doesnt really want me anymore but the fact that me seeing someone else scares him as he thinks if he wants me bk i would goAlso hes the only real guy ive cared about and still think a lot of him Any advice? xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 It does kind of sound like you might be his back up plan. He is doing you no service by stringing you along. There is a reason he has a new girlfriend. I think it's time to move on and to quit wasting your time wondering about the "what ifs".
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Hi
I have been where you are and it's a horrible feeling. You need to ask yourself a couple of questions. Why did we break up in the first place? There must be a reason and can you get past that. Also why is he there with his new G/F if he want's you back? The fact that he saw you get another guy's number may have just hurt his pride. When i was in this situation my B/f didn't want me he just didn't want anyone else to have me. It's so hard breaking up with someone but you owe it to yourself to try and move on. If it's meant to be it will. But why is he with someone else if he want's you.
I really hope this helps xx
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