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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HiI recently (2 weeks back) broke up with my bf of 1.5 years cause he cheated on me and this is not the first time. From the day i broke up he has been callingme every day. He is a sweet talker and manipulator, so i didnt pick up even one of his calls. Today i picked up and asked him why he is calling me and he said he is calling me every day to check how strong i am in my decision about breaking up with him and since i picked up the call it looks like i am not strog enough to resist him.I really dont know what kind of sick game is that, it's really disgusting and making me feel cheap for picking up his call. i really hurt. It's like he was hurting me for the past 1 year. Please help me. What actions should I take?
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reader, Abella +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Yes he is being mean and tricky. And yes it is a sick game. Don't even bother to tell him to get a life. You are lucky he is history in your life. He is not worthy of you.
Really bother him by changing your phone number. Cannot imagine the look on his face when he finds the number does not work!
Also, just in case one of your friends is silly enough to give him your new number, be prepared for that, by installing one of those answering machines that greet the caller with a message - and ensure your message is a guy, with a deep voice telling the caller, "Thanks for calling, Jane and I are busy right now, but leave a message if you want?" You ex will get sick of hearing the deep manly voice of your mystery guy.
Get thee to the gym.
Focus on your health.
Take up a new hobby that absorbs you.
Start re-inventing you and avoid anyone and anything that reminds you of your ex or any part of your life that no longer gives you joy.
And do ignore him. He is not worthy of you.
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