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Is it possible for young boys to get an erection even by looking at a girl they like?

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Question - (16 December 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *lliebellie writes:

hiya!

this question is kind of aimed at guys who are 13-15 but anyone if free to answer.

basically, is it possible for a guy to get an erection even if they are looking at a girl they like.

cus my bf, sometimes when he looks up across at me he gets all embarased and he normally sits with his legs wide open anyway, but he kind covers down there. i was just wondering, whether if he sees me/hugs me even if he could get an erection. or am i just being silly?

please answer

thanks

ellie

xxx

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (17 December 2007):

Let me fill you in even older guys are like that at times but are better at controlling it.When you are younger you get more erections than you can count.I don't remember being able to count the number of erections i used to have in a day.It's really normal though you shouldn't be always looking down there to see if he's trousers are bulging there.

Take care.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

im 12 and i look at my girl friend get so horny i fantasize about her and i have to go masturbate in the school bathroom

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A female reader, elliebellie United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hiya guys!

thanks everyone sooo much for writing in.

Uncle Phil: thanks, your advice is always great :)

Jamer70: thanks also for your advice

Anonymous: thanks for your advice. dont worry, im not remotely interested in sex, but maybe a kiss is ok? lol do you agree?

Kenny: Thanks for sharing your past expereinces with me and thanks for the advice.

Thank you all for you best wishes, good lucks and great advice as usual.

lol

ellie

xxx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 December 2007):

kenny agony auntYes its possible, at that age their hormones are racing around everywhere. I recall being that age and things like that happening to me, whether it have been looking at girls that i like, or the womans underwear section in the freemans catalogue, what a joy it was to be that age!!!!.

As he matures these feelings will subside and erections will be less frequent.

All the best x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

Of COURSE he's gonna get an erection looking at you. He's a guy, yeah? Guys get erections. A lot. Probably a lot more frequently than you'd imagine, especially at that adolescent age. He probably thinks about sex once or twice every conversation you have with him. It's not because he's a pervert; it's just that his body is being flooded with all kinds of new hormones, and "nature" is telling him to procreate.

By the way, this does NOT mean now is a good time to have sex!

Sometimes he will get erections and he won't even have to think about sex! Like if he's riding in a car on a bumpy road. Or when he wakes up in the morning. Or maybe just randomly in math class. It happens...

I'm a 25 y/o male and it STILL happens to me! Good luck!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntYes.

At that age you can get an erection over anything remotly related to girls, or even just randomly.

Hugs are one of those things that help the process, but anything can help it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

A boy of that age, with his hormones just starting to course through his body, will get an erection at just about anything whether it's page 3 of The Sun or just someone or something he's thinking of connected with the female form.

A hug will probably speed up the process and it's natural, but he'll grow out of it in a few years' time once he's started to shave.

Phil

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