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Is it possible for my vagina to become tight again?

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Question - (14 March 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *nique-angel writes:


I'm a virgin and wondering...

If i was to have sex now once evry month.. then did not have sex or anything for 5years in a row.

would my vagina become "tight" or still stay loose.


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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013):

My wife and I havent had sex in 5 years due to my ED. Recently I have seen a Urologist which has helped me to get an erection through penile injections.

My wife agreed to try this method and to have sex again. When I attempted to penetrate the vagina it seemed too small. It was nearly impossible once the head was in and would simply not go any further. My wife was in a lot of pain.

We used lubricant but it didnt seem to help much. After a few minutes it managed to slip in another inch or two but was never penetrated all the way. She finally got on top and was able to achieve an orgasm but mine came with just an inch or so of the head being inside. Does the vagina shrink from not having sex? Yes it does. I dont think she was this tight when a she was a virgin.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010):

well if you have sex once a month it give you most likely wont even become loose , because your vigina get alot of time to tighten back up

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

There are acctualy few operations when they can make your vagina tight again by removing fat from your butt or thies and inserting it in the wall. My wife did it and it felt like she was 18 again

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A male reader, VirginMaster South Africa +, writes (20 August 2009):

VirginMaster agony auntIt depends, I've spent two years studying this kind of thing,

what has been discovered is that sex once a month is not enough to stretch your vagina by much. I don't think you'd notice it enough to bother you.

It normally takes a lot more sex, and no. your vagina will not grow tight again. maybe by a marginal amount. but it won't become as tight as it was, never. however, if you are more curious, and you want to know more, especially about how keep your vagina as tight as it is now, i do have the solution for you.

Its part of my studies so feel free to contact me back.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009):

I don't agree with the sentence in the first answer that "only really narrow minded uneducated men care about virginity."

That is simply not true.

Some men and women do care about virginity. And some of them remain virgins themselves because they're not afraid to take what they are dishing out, either.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

Fiona xxx agony auntI don't believe I have stretched much.

From your wording, I get the impression that you are just about ready to have sex with your current boyfriend, perhaps you have been together a few weeks, and assume you'll be together a while? By the sounds of things, it's only a matter of time.

I also assume that you don't anticipate sleeping with many men in life, perhaps another who would become your husband in years to come?

However having sex does change you and that people have too much temptation/opportunities to go for 5 years without. What I am saying is that along will come other opportunities before you meet the guy whom you will marry.

I think perhaps we all anticipate having less sex than is the reality and that in practice sex is weekly or more if you are dating, rather than monthly too.


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A female reader, globallight United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

Do excercises, yeah sounds wierd... but work those vag muscles girl! Youd be surprised - my mate had 3 kids and her bf says she is still tight.

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A female reader, unique-angel United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

unique-angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the site ti was really good:)

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A female reader, United States +, writes (14 March 2009): agony auntHaving sex doesnt make you 'loose.'

You may loosen up temporarily because your muscles will be relaxed but its not permanent. You will tighten up again after you have sex. Mainly, your tightness is predetermined and some girls are born with a really tight vagina which will stay tight no matter how many times you have sex. Some girls have looser vaginas; and may be considered 'relatively loose' even when they are a virgin.

Everyone girls vagina is different and it varies in tightness.

The only way to permanently loosen your vagina is natural childbirth which stretches you out down there. Even after childbirth tho, its possible to regain some tightness with pelvic floor exercises.

If you are concerned with staying really tight, follow Army Medic's advice and do some pelvic floor exercises to keep you muscles toned and tight down there.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntBefore loosing your virginity please read this article:

I think you are looking in to the whole virginity thing too much, you don't stretch that much and doing pelvic floor exercises should keep muscle tone down there.

The only way to stay like a virgin is not to have sex. But only really narrow minded uneducated men care about that.

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