My childhood sucks! Need advice, please!
Q. Hey, im 13 and my childhood sucks!! but its not any1 persons fault.... its bout everyones fault mainly mine..... see i have a very large anger problem, a.d.d, and o.c.d.... i don't take any medication cuz they cost alot and i would have to be th...
A. 3 June 2008: no no no honey u need to get in touch w/a low income clinic! they can get u examined and medication for free. ... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 1 June 2008: isint it child molestation or atleast illegal for ui a 16 yr old to b w/a 40yo? what do u have in common besides sex??? how long have u know him? ur mother is just looking out for u.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?
Q. My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think ...
A. 25 May 2008: this guy sounds seriously selfish!!! my advice to u is think hard about moving in w/him. he sounds minipulative and controlling.... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight from my breasts?
Q. How do I lose weight from my breasts? I am a 21yr old female, with a slim build, very slim waist and arms, and curvy hips. When I lose weight, I lose it everywhere but my breasts... they are DD's and I feel like I'm disproportionate. I have gone ...
A. 22 May 2008: imma 44dd and i know what ur going thru! i lost 65 pnds once and my breasts actually got firmer. it was sooooooooooooooo annoying! men r pigs and make comments to me all the time. iv just learned to igbore the comments and to use the attention to ... (read in full...)
When I ask my parents for things they either yell at me or get angry at me
Q. I am afraid to ask my parents for things and sometimes even a question. When I ask my parents for things they either yell at me or get angry at me. I don't know why. I ask them very nicely, and they just yell at me. Most of the time i'm afraid to ...
A. 22 May 2008: i had a problem similar to this growing up. as for the parent issue, is there another adult u can talk to about things? for me i went to teachers for advice...i was in special ed so the classes were smaller and i was able to bond easier w/my ... (read in full...)
Had a drunken one-night stand, turns out it was the boss's daughter, but I don't want to see her again! Help!
Q. I had a stupid drunken one night stand, in the morning I felt really sick about it because i was not at all attracted to the woman...I couldnt even look at her. I was nice enough to her and left not wanting to see her again. I went to work and on my ...
A. 20 May 2008: invite her out for lunch or something and be a total jerk...just hope she doesnt read this column lol!... (read in full...)
He's the one who dictates everything now, and I'm so confused!
Q. Hi there...... I really hope someone out there can help me and hopefully knock some sense into me as everyday that goes by im feeling lower and lower and all i can put it down to is an addiction, but of what is the confusing scenario!!! B...
A. 20 May 2008: why do u put up w/it? things will never change unlesss u make them change! im sure uv heard this b4 and i know its gonna b hard but uv gotta stop letting him use u for sex and money when its convienent for him. stop answering his texts, dont b ... (read in full...)
I need to get control of my life...things are very complicated and messy!
Q. this is a real question im 17 living with a guy 18 years older than me but he doesnt know im 17 he thinks im 20 and well while he is at work i have sex with strange me for money im also pregnant with the guy i live withs baby as i was pregnan...
A. 15 May 2008: for help w/the baby issue id call the woman's care center or a wic office. they can help w/nutritional support, emotional support and more than likely can guide u in handling ur legal issues.... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 14 May 2008: get rid of her! what kind of future or present for that matter can u have w/a girl like this?... (read in full...)
A part of me wants him back, but I'm in an amazing relationship now! I have no idea what to do...
Q. sorry this will be abit long last year i started a relationship with a boy who lives a couple of hours away from me, we didn't really care at the time. but then we broke up because of it and it completely tore me up inside. we started to have a g...
A. 14 May 2008: does the other guy still live far away? if so it didnt work b4 and u say ur w/a great guy now...my advice is to stay w/they current guy and just b friends w/the other one.... (read in full...)
I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.
Q. I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last ...
A. 14 May 2008: dont take too much to heart...some guys just dont get off w/bjs. dont beat urself up.... (read in full...)
Which one should I choose??
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years going on 4 and he's proposed to me and has my named tattooed on his chest i love him with all my heart. but we've been having problems and he hasnt called me like he should. i dont get to see him that much ...
A. 14 May 2008: hun if ur age group is true u way to young to b even thinking about marriage...thats my opinion anyways.... (read in full...)
Where can my friend get support to help her move away from her abuse problems?
Q. I nees to find some where for my friend to move to. She is being abused and is need of going out of state because she has six children and has to find some place to call their own....
A. 27 April 2008: she needs to call the womans care center or even the local WIC office. they can get her into a safe house quickly. sorry im not one for details but thats what i did when i left my abusive xhusband.... (read in full...)
Should I move to California to be with my boyfriend?
Q. okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our ...
A. 17 April 2008: nope...keep ur happy a** where u r! honesstly u barely know the guy. u got a future where u r now...i suggest u just try a long distance relationship... (read in full...)
My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat!
Q. My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat. We recently split for a couple of weeks when i found out he'd looked at porn on the internet. We got back together after talks, because I'd seen what he'd looked at ...
A. 16 April 2008: RUN!!! things will not get better...guys like this only get worse... (read in full...)
Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!
Q. i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT...
A. 16 April 2008: growing up i always had acne and nasty blackheads!!! then one day i decided to try not using all those expensive cure-alls. isimply staarted exfoliating (scrubbing) my face w/just water and a washcloth lol. it worked!!! i dont get acne anymore ... (read in full...)
Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.
Q. Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: why dont u make a move and ask a guy to hang out w/u? either that or have a friend intervene for u.... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.
Q. We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...
A. 8 April 2008: omg this is so easy...leave the bum and either get a job, do volunteer work, or goto a friends house... (read in full...)
I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.
Q. Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me some...
A. 7 April 2008: have u tried kissing/lightly biting/sucking on his neck/ears/chest? guys love that!!! also sucking/lightly biting on his nipples will work too...try it sometime.... (read in full...)
After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?
Q. I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but ...
A. 4 April 2008: hey wait a min! swallowing does turn the guy on but it doesnt have to SYMBOLIZE anything! lol... (read in full...)
My relationship is an emotional roller coaster...he keeps yelling at me!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. At first everything was great and he was so sweet and always there for me. Now he yells all the time and tells me what I'm suppose to do and I better do it. He dont want me to talk to anyone ...
A. 4 April 2008: get rid of him! hell never change and ull never do things to HIS satisfaction!... (read in full...)
He has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Should I give him a second chance?
Q. I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...
A. 30 March 2008: it takes a big man to ask for help when he needs it! ur lucky ur guy is willing to try.
id say as long as hes working on his problems give him ur love and support.
support from a loved one goes a long way!... (read in full...)
My husband hit me--should we separate?
Q. My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it ...
A. 28 March 2008: screw the s.o.b.!!! my x husband was very abusive and when i went to call the police hed rip out the phone.
just because u "irritate" him its no excuse for him to hurt u. my advice is to contact ur nearest women's shelter and make plans to... (read in full...)
Please help ... Married just under a year and feelings for another man?
Q. I can't belive I am sitting here writing this. I am so sad and guilty ... My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. We are high school sweethearts so to speak and have been married for just under a year now. My husband has some anger ...
A. 25 March 2008: is ur husband suffering from depression? if so mayb he needs help... (read in full...)
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