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Is it normal we haven't got into a fight yet? And is it good or bad?

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Question - (10 January 2017) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2017)
A female United States age 18-21, *arahbeara23 writes:

Okay so basically I've been told by a couple of my friends that its not good my boyfriend and I haven't actual fought yet.

We've been together for a little over four months, we irritate and annoy each other at points but we haven't actually gotten into a fight. We just haven't. And I for one thought that this was an amazing thing. Were together a lot of the time.

He works thirds and I work first, and I typically go over to his house after I get out of work. So my big question is.. Is it normal we haven't got into a fight yet? And is it good or bad?

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (11 January 2017):

N91 agony auntI've heard this so many times. Why would you WANT to argue? Your friends opinion is silly and if you haven't fallen out with your bf yet then that's just the way it goes and that's a good thing if anything.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (10 January 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntBy arguments, I mean little disagreements and maybe the occasional miscommunication "argument", not fights or frequent arguments.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada + , writes (10 January 2017):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Question...In what world is fighting or arguing okay?

Has anybody ever felt "Damn, I am so happy we had that major argument. We should do this every day...wow."

Some fools believe that when you argue it means you love each other. If that is true...Tell me this..Has any relationship you know of, broke up because they NEVER argued, and were completely happy??

So anyone who tells you arguing is good for a relationship, has no idea what it means to be in love.

Talking things out...AWESOME...Arguing...Well..We all know how that ends.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway + , writes (10 January 2017):

chigirl agony auntIts good. Your friends are just jealous.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (10 January 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntYou're so new, it'd be a red flag if you've fought already - you're in the honeymoon stage!

Most successful couples argue a bit, but don't fight.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (10 January 2017):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think it's bad. People who think you HAVE to fight to have a good relationship obviously haven't HAD a good relationship.

My husband and I RARELY ever fight - actually, I can't remember the last time. WE disagree, we get annoyed at each other, but we don't really fight.

Some people tend to think that the more DRAMATIC their relationship is the deeper the feelings. I tend to disagree. But if it works for them, more power to them.

So in short, I think you two are fine. Not every relationship are the same because people aren't all the same.

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